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So my older sister's kids got sick once again and she (of course) asked me to look after them but I told her I couldn't sice they've got the stomach flu and i didn't really want to get it. It was hard enough for me to tell her that and she said "oh... well... ok... nevermind".
Then the next day she fu**ing threw her kids over here (she asked my mom, not me, but we live under the same friggin roof!) and they spent some hours here (i tried to stay away from them but how could I?!). This was yestarday. Today she came here with her youngest saying she wanted to get some sun tan on my balcony her left the kid with me while she went outside... lucky me it's windy today so she only stayed for 15 mins... BUT GUESS WHAT?!
My tummy's all upset, I feel like throwing up and I have diarrhea.
I had to meet the baby's daddy today but I had to cancel our date...
No offense...but is your sister just stupid?!? Does she really not care about you and your pregnancy? Doesn't she remember what it's like to be pregnant? You should just give her a piece of your mind, or at least, go throw up all over her house.
Unfortunately, some people are just very self absorbed. It really doesn't seem like you could rationalize with her. I think at this point since this isn't the first time, I would go talk to my mom and let her know the problem. Maybe she could set your sister straight or at least tell her NO the next time.
oh man..that would tick me off! my sister does the same thing..she has one son..and she gets a sitter EVERY weekend, usually my mom. and now that i'm living here again..i'm usually the one watching him because he wants to play with my kids, so it's not like i can ignore him, and the poor kid is always sick too.
That is very unfair of your sister. I agree with Trivos about talking to your mom. Maybe if she understood how you feel she could help your sister to understand. It isn't like you don't love the kids, you just don't want to get sick.
thanks for all your replies girls they mean a lot to me. I talked to my mom but she doesn't want to be "rude" with my sister... The baby's daddy came even though I was sick and we had a nice time watching cartoons as I was laying on the couch trying not to puke.
My mom told my sister I was sick too and she came to me asking all happy "are you sick? hahaha you have diarrea?" laughing! I was so angry she noticed it and told me "oh well your sister goes to school so she could have passed it to you" I told her her kids are throwing up all over the place and pooping like crazy and she tells me that MY HEALTY TWIN SIS passed it to me?!