We pride ourselves on having the friendliest
and most welcoming forums for moms and moms to be! Please take a moment
and register
for free so you can be a part of our growing community of mothers.
If you have any problems registering please drop an email to boards@justmommies.com.
Our community is moderated by our moderation team so you won't see spam or offensive messages posted on our forums. Each of our message boards is hosted by JustMommies hosts, whose names are listed at the top each board. We hope you find our message boards friendly, helpful, and fun to be on!
the past few days have been so busy. i sold my computer to a friend who needed it more than i did. but my DH still has his. my DH and DD are out seeing spiderman 3 right now, my DS is sleeping, an dim just relaxing from what feels like an already too long of a weekend.
my week wasnt bad, family wise. we just kinda hung around, spent time together, and i loved it!my friends ( or so called friends), drove me insane.
you ladies, well the ones who read the stories, know the whole ordeal with my one friend, and her rudeness.i was always laid back and calm about it, i just let her walk all over me.well this week, was my breaking point.it started off with her trying to act all big and bad, and trying to hurt my feelings, got friends of min ethat, well, i thought were close, to treat me like #####. i came home one day, and they turned their backs to me, and ignored me. and i guess that did it for me, and i just started busting up laughing. they turned around looked, and i wa slike.. you know, for a group of adults, your all pretty ###### childish, and if you think this is hurting me, all your doing is giving me a good laugh. i didnt speak to any of them at all over the week.other than that. and lol... yesterday ( friday) i get a knock at the door, im laying on my couch,watching a movie, ( you could tell i wasnt busy i was just relaxing ), i get a knock, i told her to come in, it's ashley who is stuck up all the peoples ##### around here. and shes like so and so wants to talk to you. and my response, while changing channels,... im too busy right now. i just dont have the time. theres just way too much i am doing right now. and my DH is tryin too hard not to laugh. and shes like, well so and so needs to see you, and i look up and say, well if it was important, why did she send a messenger instead of being women and walking over here herself.so ashley walks back.lol. and i hear my nieghobor say amber come here. i was tryin to ignore her, well i guess my DH got fed up of her, and was like, amber just go see what she wants. AH!!!!!!! i didnt want to! but i did, cause i didnt want him to be upset of her ignorance. so i get there. you can tell im pissed. im like.. what do you want.she goes. well i got this new vacuum .. (( what am i to do applaud her??)).. i was like ok..... she goes.. it smells good right? (( well if u cleaned ur house it wouldnto f smelled bad in the first place))andi was like yea i guess so.she goes... ( mind u she and i havent spoken at all ) , well what time do you want a demo tomorrow. and i was like, oh, me? i dont. im not wasting time with a company who wants over 2k for a vacuum, when if i needed, i would take a broom and dust pan to my floor and just spray febreze.she comments, well i need u to do it, so and so isnt home, and i want the free gift. that did it. in front of everyone i went off, even the sales man.
i was liike..
you know, whats funny is. i hear you talk ##### behind my back, do i care? no. because now im the center of your little pitiful world.do i look that dumb to you?what, because im ditsy i must be stupid right:?i have wasted my time on our so called friendship. from the day we met you been nothing but rude, and used me.how many time shave i babysat for you?whether it was notice or you saying you had to go do something, even though you went down the street to get drunk?andhow many times did you pay me? not even an offer, ever!and the 1 time i had you watch my children for 10 minutes ( literally ), you charged me 20 dollars!you use me only when you need me. but im sorry, im not someone who lets people walk over her, and im not a back burner. im tired of you, and your bull######, u need to grow up and sto using people.and as far as you letting teens drink in your house, i could of been a ###### and called the cops, but i didnt, but best dam believe, next tim ei even think they are drinking, i will call the cops, and i will tell them they are drinking, and i will say they arent related to you, and their mothers dont go, they just go to church with you. ..then i looked at her and said.. and you call your self christian.. grow the fuk up.
YEAH!!!! Good for you! I bet you feel so much better after that. People who use you definately aren't your friends. They will before long-if they haven't already-figure out exactly what they are missing with you. Not only did you do them soooo many favors, but you are great person and they will no longer get to hang out with such a great person. I say good for you, hun.
__________________
Alyssa, Mom to:
Ethan, November 6, 2005
Lexi, August 20, 2007
Yeah!!!! You go girl!!! Good on you. I'm so glad you stuck up for yourself and told her how you felt. I don't like hypocrites like that. Plus you don't need friends like that especially if they are there to use you. You should be proud of yourself with how you approached her. You go girl!!!!
yea it's so great to not have the drama with her anymore. i lost a group of friends. but it just proves how fake they were.i told my husbands best friend, i'd rather have enemies then fake friends in my life. the drama queen herself asked if i had speakers she could use lastnight ( for the computer ). and it frustrated me ( just proves even more she used me). i said sure.... lemme figure out how much to charge you to use them. and she looked at me, and i was like what. do you think you can just use my stuff for free? and she walked away.
i hope she doesn't ask for anything else..
oh, what does hood checked mean?ghetto wise...lol... some chick that hangs out with her said.. " she needs to be hood checked" .. *** is that?
"Hood Checked" doesn't even make sense to me lol and I live in Philly and there is a lot of slang around here. lol
I have absolutely no clue about the hood checked thing! LOL
Linear Mode
