1. no books and I don't plan on getting any
2. humm....my mom give "advice" often that goes in one ear and out the other without any comprehension in between

but I think the oddest thing was when a lady asked me if I had any other children besides the twins - when I replied "no,just them" she said "well your done now aren't you" - I had no clue how to respond. I thought it was rather rude to assume to know someone's family planning!