I wanted to tell my mom so we decided too. They're excited for us, I think my step-dad was even more excited haha. He's been asking when we'd have our 3rd for awhile now haha.
So, my mom and step-dad have been told. My brother also, because my mom forced me on the phone with him. So him and his wife know. I had to write on my moms FB page to not say anything directly on our pages because we have our oldest niece added and we haven't told his family.
I tried to get ahold of my dad but he didn't answer

He doesn't do well with the holidays anymore.
Anyways we have chosen the names. We finally agreed on a girls name awhile ago before we found out.
If it's a girl it'll be Shelby Gail and if its a boy it'll be Cole Theodore. Both middle names are my family names since Dane has his family name in the middle name.