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September 23rd, 2012, 07:22 AM
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that you were done having kids?

who wants more?

who is undecided?


Sometimes I think I want another one,but then I think about the diaper bags,day care,what if he or she were colicky(again),what if there were complications.......I am 41 and will be 42 in November. I had toxemia with Jessica,had it again with Logan and it seemed like it was worse with him.I don't know if it was worse or if was just because of my age.And then I think what if the next time went really well.......I am just rambling here....But I think we are done.Although a part of me says I want to try one more time and dh has even mentioned the possibility.......*sigh*
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September 23rd, 2012, 01:34 PM
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We "just knew". We were so lucky to have boy/girl twins! Honestly, DH and I have never really had a serious talk about it. Like I said - we just know.

One of my biggest reasons is because I don't know that I could handle the big possibility of having another preemie. It was so difficult and I don't want to ever go through that again.

We have our 2 and that's it for us. We are happy
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September 24th, 2012, 09:29 AM
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my pg with raini was miserable for me, i had so many issues with my body (not her she was just perfect) and ive had so many surgeries on top of the c/s's, my dr didnt advice another c/s and we were blessed with our little girl and two handsome little boys.

i struggled with the decision, dh was knew he was done, he worried so much over me this last time that he just couldnt bare the thought of going through it again and possibly losing me and a baby.
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September 24th, 2012, 07:39 PM
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I miscarried December '06 then my pregnancy with Kayley was so awful at the beginning that I told DH that even if I miscarried again, I was done. I wasn't going to do it again. (i told him this early on when i was horridly sick) I had my tubes tied the day after she was born and a hysterectomy 2 years ago and never been happier. I don't even get baby fever.
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September 25th, 2012, 04:15 PM
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We're done because DH wants to be, it was our deal. If we had number five then he could get the big V. I regret it but DH does not at all.
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October 8th, 2012, 08:31 AM
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Honestly, I'm not sure. Most of the time I am so happy with the three that I have and don't want anymore, but I don't want to completely shut the door on the option of a fourth.
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