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March 13th, 2009, 07:54 AM
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Apparently my SOs whole side of his family knows I'm pregnant! I just found out all his uncles, grandma and people have been talking about it. I didn't tell any of them and SOs mom claims she didn't tell anyone. I guess I didn't realize I'm that obvious!! I hate people talking about me behind my back, too.

Now this makes me really worried to go back to my job Monday because if all of them called it, how am I gonna keep it from my boss (who is much closer and knows me much better than these people)? I mean I'm not planning on keeping it from her for more than a few days, but still. I guess I just scream pregnant to people.
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March 13th, 2009, 08:00 AM
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someone is lying. i'm gonna bet MIL opened her trap
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March 13th, 2009, 08:07 AM
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Thats what I'm thinking. If thats the case... thats soooo lame because I'm not even ready to tell people!
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March 13th, 2009, 08:08 AM
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Yep, I agree. Your MIL sang like a canary!
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March 13th, 2009, 08:11 AM
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She talked. There's no doubt in my mind.

This is why when we told our parents we knew we had to be ready to tell everyone. At first we were going to make them keep quiet, but we KNEW they'd never keep their mouths shut... So we just told them to go with it.
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March 13th, 2009, 08:17 AM
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Yeah, it stinks because I know my parents can keep a secret and would never do anything to make me uncomfortable, so I didnt really have a problem with him telling his parents (its only his mom that's the trouble maker). My SOs mom has it in her head that I'm 13, so basically she's gonna be raising the baby, which is why I think she felt it was her right to tell people. Boy is she gonna be in for an awakening when she sees I'm more than capable and she's gonna have minimal part in the baby's life until she can start acting like a grownup.
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March 13th, 2009, 08:44 AM
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I am sorry she put you in that situation (assuming she's the blabber mouth). I'm sure it's easier said than done, but try and make the best of it.
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March 13th, 2009, 09:00 AM
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My sister in law did the same thing and I bet it was your MIL too!
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March 13th, 2009, 10:04 AM
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It sounds like your MIL may have let on about your secret. She may not have outright told anyone but maybe she hinted around enough that they figured it out.
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March 13th, 2009, 11:12 AM
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I've told my family, but at DF's discretion, we're not telling his mom until we're ready for his whole family to know! She's quite the blabbermouth. So we're telling everyone at easter (including her) with customized m&m's... it's gonna be a blast!
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March 13th, 2009, 02:53 PM
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Geez! I'm sorry someone obviously talked. That is so rude AND wrong even if she is upset about the pregnancy. I am so glad that my mother and my in laws can keep their mouths shut and respect something we tell them in private...otherwise they wouldn't be privy to anything, ever. I'm glad you have good parents to lean on
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March 13th, 2009, 04:02 PM
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I agree it sounds like MIL told everybody.
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March 16th, 2009, 10:08 AM
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(((((HUGS))))) im sorry that someone went and told. thats wrong.
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