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March 23rd, 2009, 03:18 PM
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I'm kinda scared. This is my last pregnancy. I'm getting my tubes tied. I planned to do it this summer but it looks like that's not going to happen. It just hit me a couple of minutes ago I'll never have morning sickness or feel a baby move in me after this baby. Who is on the same boat as me?
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March 23rd, 2009, 03:32 PM
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This will be my last but dr. said I was way too young to get my tubes tied and that she doesn't recommend it to anyone because feelings always change... I guess shes right, for me anyways... I see you will have 4 and your hands filled! LOL
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March 23rd, 2009, 03:38 PM
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DH and I have always said we only wanted to have two children. So I will be discussing it with my Doctor, but I am like you I am young so I know they always try to discourage you from doing it. I am 25 and will be turning 26 right after I have this baby. So we will see. I would also really like for them to do it at the same time I am at the hospital, especially since I am having a c-sec and will already be cut open!
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March 23rd, 2009, 03:47 PM
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My dr is probably going to try and convince me to get my tubes tied, but I think my DH is going to get fixed. If I had c-sections or if I did, it would probably be me, but I just can't do it. This one will be my last, so I'm kinda in the same boat.
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March 23rd, 2009, 05:42 PM
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Depends, if this one is a boy it's probably our last, but if we have another girl we may try for another after a few years...at least until Ava is out of daycare and in school I don't think I'll be getting my tubes tied though. I'm still trying to convince DH that when we are sure we're done it should be him who takes the big step!
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March 23rd, 2009, 06:10 PM
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I always said I only wanted 2 kids, but just thinking about this one being my last kinda makes me sad....plus I am only 24 so I have awhile to decide. I think I am going to get the implanon birth control that last 5 years or get the 10 year one, dont know yet...
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March 23rd, 2009, 06:12 PM
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I'm gonna pass on any kind of surgery. No. Thank. You!!!

This child was not planned.. at all.. wanted to wait years to have another, so right now I feel like i'm too young to be making any decisions like that. I have a LOT of child bearing years in front of me, and while I can't see having another one, I could easily change my mind down the road.
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March 23rd, 2009, 06:14 PM
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noooope. i can't imagine getting my tubes tied, even though this might be our last. i would feel like I robbed myself of something. i don't know why i have such an aversion to this for myself...
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March 23rd, 2009, 06:40 PM
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I will be getting my tubes tied and soon after my DH will be getting a the big V.


I feel that this is what is best for our family.
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March 23rd, 2009, 07:12 PM
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Dh is getting snipped, since I have to have surgery. lol But yes, this is our last and I'm ok with it. I HATE being pregnant and I know I will not miss it. I'm sure at some point I'll miss having a newborn, but I know 3 is it for us.
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March 23rd, 2009, 07:57 PM
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IF, now I mean if I end up with another C-section I will get my tubes tied. But if I succeed in having my VBAC then I won't. Though DH is going in this summer to get his V done. This little surprise is our last. 6 is quite enough for us.
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March 23rd, 2009, 08:17 PM
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I'm not going to get my tubes tied but this *might* be my last pregnancy. It is kind of bittersweet and I'm trying to enjoy every moment.
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March 23rd, 2009, 08:21 PM
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I am getting everything taken out because of health. I am only 26 this will be my third and I was sad until I got preggo this time. I think my body is just to old. Really if I set and think about it I dont think I could handle another pregnancy. Morning sickness and being tired has got to me this time. Before it didnt even happen. So I am going to miss the first look at my babies and the feelings of kicking and the belly but, Honestly I think I am going to be ok not to have anymore.
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not for me this is my 1st and we don't know how many we want but when we are done DH will be the one getting fixed not me
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March 24th, 2009, 03:49 AM
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Yes I might. We definitely want 3 children but not more. I have to have a c-sec so it will probably make sense to do it then. At the moment I'm really okay with it. 3 children is what I want so I'm at peace with this being my last pregnancy. (Also I'm 34 so this is no huge issue for me to think about - agewise I am ready).
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March 24th, 2009, 05:00 AM
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NOt me we are just going to use preventive measures
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March 24th, 2009, 06:57 AM
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I will be having a c-section but I don't think I want my tubes tied. We are not planning on anymore and I am fine with DH having it it done. Having my tubes tied has just never felt right with me. I don't know, though. This is the first time I have considered it. I go back and forth and more towards no.
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