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  #1  
March 24th, 2009, 11:55 AM
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First off I want to thank all of you for your thoughts and prayers.

Today I had my second U/S I should be over 9 weeks, and according to last U/S should be 7 weeks to the doctors.
Well, there was still only a sac. The sac was bigger and my uterus was bigger too, but the doctor told me she believes I will be miscarrying any day now. She told me a baby never formed but my body still was sending signals I was pregnant, which is why the uterus and sac were still growing. She is going to have me do blood work today and again thursday to see if the numbers go up, but she told me she didnt want to give me hope at the same time but she wanted to do it before we discussed any other options (wait to miscarry or medications to make me miscarry). Since there is no baby she told me my miscarriage should be like a very heavy period but shouldnt be too bad. I am scheduled to go back to see her next Wednesday - if my numbers have gone up.
So I am pretty sure this is going to be my GoodBye to you all.
I had to pull myself together, but luckily my DH is being very supportive. I guess everything happens for a reason, so maybe it is just not time for me to have another baby yet.
I wish I could have found this out sooner, before we told family and friends and before we got excited. I feel cheated.

Thank you again ladies.
I wish you all a happy and healthy pregnancy. I really loved this DDC and it is hard for me to leave.

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March 24th, 2009, 11:59 AM
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ohhh no.. i was just skimming the other thread to see if you had an update! im so sorry.
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March 24th, 2009, 12:06 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear that news - I know it must be hard - <<HUGS>>
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March 24th, 2009, 12:13 PM
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I am so sorry to hear this news.

I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers...

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March 24th, 2009, 12:19 PM
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Rhonda, I'm so sorry. I was really hoping and praying that everything would be ok for you.
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March 24th, 2009, 12:21 PM
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Oh no hun. I am soo sorry.
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March 24th, 2009, 12:29 PM
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Oh Rhonda, my heart breaks for you. I had prayed so hard for this to work for you. I had this too, 10yrs ago, and I still remember it like it was yesterday. Your in my thoughts and prayers, may God be with your family right now.
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March 24th, 2009, 12:43 PM
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I'm so sorry!
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March 24th, 2009, 12:43 PM
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March 24th, 2009, 12:58 PM
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I am so incredibly sorry. I've been praying for you and thinking of you. It seems so unfair to feel pregnant for so long if the baby didn't make it. Lots of ((hugs)) to you.
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March 24th, 2009, 01:21 PM
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March 24th, 2009, 01:31 PM
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I'm so sorry.
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March 24th, 2009, 01:36 PM
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I am so sorry you are going through this, I know how devastating it can be. I am glad that your dh is being supportive. You guys will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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March 24th, 2009, 01:43 PM
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I am so sorry
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March 24th, 2009, 01:44 PM
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i am deeply sorry rhonda
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March 24th, 2009, 01:49 PM
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I am so sorry. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

I went through the exact same thing between my 8th and 9th. I had a Dr actually say to me, "If it helps, there was never a baby so it's not like you are losing anything."

I switched OBs that afternoon and my new one was so supportive. She explained that I was indeed losing something. I had been pg and bonding with my baby this whole time so not to let anyone else tell me it was just "nothing". I did grieve for what I lost but the whole process took so long with weeks of waiting and wondering, just like what you have been doing, that when it was finally over, I was able to feel some relief.

I am so sorry you are going through this. (((HUG)))
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March 24th, 2009, 01:57 PM
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I'm so sorry!
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March 24th, 2009, 02:12 PM
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I'm so sorry sweetie! I'm here for you anytime I know what you are going through. Big hugs, t&p's for you!
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