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March 25th, 2009, 01:54 AM
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Well I had my ob appt this morning - 8wks 4 days. Nervous as always waiting to hear the heartbeat. One baby... no heartbeat.

The heart cavity was dilated but the baby was measuring right for dates so he thinks it happened in the last few days. So anyway he said it's nothing I did, it's just that the baby's heart hasn't developed properly. So I guess I know in my head that this is the right thing to happen, that nature is taking it's course, but I guess my HEART hasn't really caught up to that yet.

I'm doing okay - I'm really sad but then I look around me and I have my dh and my beautiful, healthy boys and I know I'm very lucky really. I had fairly breezy pregnancies with them so while I know this can happen to anyone, it wasn't really on my radar.

I'm having a curette in the morning. I could wait to miscarry naturally - he said that could happen in a week or it could take six weeks to happen. I don't want to be wondering if I'm going to miscarry at work, or at Easter when we're holidaying with my family or whatever, so I guess this just lets me control the situation a bit.

So anyway that's me done for now. Wishing you all wonderful, healthy pregnancies!
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March 25th, 2009, 03:42 AM
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I'm so sorry.
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March 25th, 2009, 03:46 AM
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Thanks ladies.
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March 25th, 2009, 04:29 AM
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March 25th, 2009, 05:06 AM
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I am so sorry. I will be praying for you
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March 25th, 2009, 05:24 AM
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My heart just sinks every time I see one of these posts. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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March 25th, 2009, 05:32 AM
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i'm so sorry and we are all here for you! Hugs and thoughts and prayers for you sweetie!
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March 25th, 2009, 05:35 AM
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I am soo sorry hun!
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March 25th, 2009, 05:40 AM
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I am so so sorry. Please do take to heart what the doctor said, Early losses are not your fault, the heart not forming correctly is nothing you did or anything wrong with you.

You and your family will be in my prayers.
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March 25th, 2009, 05:45 AM
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March 25th, 2009, 05:46 AM
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I am so very sorry for your loss. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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March 25th, 2009, 05:58 AM
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im sorry hun.
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March 25th, 2009, 06:11 AM
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March 25th, 2009, 07:19 AM
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*hugs* I am so sorry hon! My thoughts and prayers are with you!
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March 25th, 2009, 07:31 AM
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I am so sorry you have to go through this. We'll be praying for you...
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March 25th, 2009, 07:35 AM
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March 25th, 2009, 07:39 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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