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July 10th, 2009, 10:55 AM
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I don't know if its because Dh is gone right now or if its all in my head. I have been having dreams that Dh is cheating on me. last night I had a dream that he wasn't coming home because he fell in love with another girl. I'm having a really hard time dealing with this. It feels so real. It takes me days to get over it. I know it has to be in my head but I feel so uneasy about it.
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July 10th, 2009, 11:13 AM
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You're not the only one! I have been having cheating dreams since the 2nd trimester started. They are always very vivid and I wake up feeling terrible. I actually had one where I woke up and was a little mad at him even though I had no right to be. I tell him about them though so that he knows why I might be a little funky that day. I absolutely hate them because they're ridiculous. My hubby has never cheated nor has he given me any reason to believe he would. He is the most loyal man I have ever known. He hates that I'm having dreams like that, but it seems throughout this entire pregnancy I have had horrible dreams. He likes to remind me they are just dreams and my hormones are all over the place so forget them.

As far as it being an insecurity...I wouldn't go that far. I think us being pregnant naturally makes us feel a little different. I know this week I look in the mirror and see weight that everyone else tells me isn't there. It's just these stupid hormones!!!

Hope your dreams stop soon cause they are no fun for sure.
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July 10th, 2009, 11:46 AM
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Thanks I tell dh about them too and he always tells me he would never do that and I do believe him but they still make me feel so horrible.
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July 10th, 2009, 11:49 AM
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I've had a dream DH cheated too! In my dream I saw the whole thing and he didn't understand why I was so angry about it.. I woke up a bit angry as well and told him about it lol.. weird.
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July 10th, 2009, 12:15 PM
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i'm sure it's just the wacko pregnancy dreams and that combined with your hormones just makes everything seem like the end of the world. i dream about the craziest things too and have made a few jabs at my DH about him and his "gf" that of course doesnt exsist.
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July 10th, 2009, 12:46 PM
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oh man! i have been having those kinds of dreams lately and they are horrible! makes my mood change instantly towards him!!!
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July 10th, 2009, 12:59 PM
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well, DH has dreams like once a week that im cheating on him, i dont even have any male friends or talk to anyone male so....probably just an insecurity
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July 10th, 2009, 01:09 PM
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I've had dreams like that too. I think it's just hormones and insecurities.
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July 10th, 2009, 01:21 PM
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Well I'm glad I'm not the only one having thses types of dreams. It makes me feel a little better.
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July 10th, 2009, 01:50 PM
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I think it's the wacky pregnancy hormones that cause that. I've had several dreams like that too and I even whacked dh in my sleep once during one of those dreams. lol
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July 11th, 2009, 11:33 AM
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You know its funny you mention this!

I know my hubby would NEVER cheat! But when im preggo I have dreams all the time about him cheating. I wake up ANGRY at him even.

Whats odd is when im preggo I don't feel as down on myself as I do when I am not??

Crazy!
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