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January 22nd, 2010, 06:49 AM
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WOW thats a tuff one. I not sure what I would do. I would have a hard time going without taking Alice. Do you feel comfortable showing up with Alice even though what your mother said? I would almost do that so you don't miss your Gma's party and make your mom can just deal with it. I mean I don't know your mom and at all so I don't know how she would react but I think that is what I would do. Sorry I am of no help my mother in law hates me too but my DH doesn't really care for that side of his family so I don't have to deal with it often. Good luck!
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January 22nd, 2010, 07:00 AM
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I'd either show up with Aice and Ellie, as the family you are or I'd call your Grandma and tell her after exactly what happened.
Wow, your Mom really is a piece of work.
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January 22nd, 2010, 07:07 AM
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I would either go with Alice and Ellie as a family or not at all.

your mom needs to just accept it and move on.

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January 22nd, 2010, 07:10 AM
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I think I would show up with her and let your mother deal. Tough situation.
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January 22nd, 2010, 07:53 AM
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I'd just bring alice along. if your mother gives you crap about it then tell her, if she wants to see her granddaughter she has to be accepting of BOTH her mommies!
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I'd just bring alice along. if your mother gives you crap about it then tell her, if she wants to see her granddaughter she has to be accepting of BOTH her mommies!
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January 22nd, 2010, 09:26 AM
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I'd either show up with Aice and Ellie, as the family you are or I'd call your Grandma and tell her after exactly what happened.
Wow, your Mom really is a piece of work.

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January 22nd, 2010, 09:37 AM
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That's Terrible! I agree with Paula.
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January 22nd, 2010, 12:06 PM
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I totally think thats BS... I would do either what I said or I also agree with Erica
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January 22nd, 2010, 01:04 PM
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I'd go with both of them. I'd also tell her that the three (soon to be four) of you are a package deal. Can't have one and not the others.

I have the same issue here. Rodger and I have been together for almost 7 years now and my mother still doesn't see him as a part of the family... except of course when she wants money but that's another story.
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January 22nd, 2010, 01:10 PM
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Actually, I change my mind. I'd show up with Alice and Ellie and I'd have Ellie wear an outfit that says I <3 my Mommies!! Then I'd make sure I showed some PDA with Alice right in front of your Mother.
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January 22nd, 2010, 02:33 PM
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Actually I Paula's idea.
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January 22nd, 2010, 03:57 PM
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I LOVE Paula's idea! lol That's how I'd roll too!
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January 22nd, 2010, 04:16 PM
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Wow, how rude! I would go see Grandma the night before and tell her why you won't be there. I wouldn't go without Alice because it would hurt her. OR you can show up with Alice anyway and your mom can deal with it.

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Actually, I change my mind. I'd show up with Alice and Ellie and I'd have Ellie wear an outfit that says I <3 my Mommies!! Then I'd make sure I showed some PDA with Alice right in front of your Mother.
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January 22nd, 2010, 05:03 PM
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LOL I knew you would!
It's not you with the problem, it's your Mother so let her deal. You go WITH your family, have a good time and enjoy the cringed looks on your Moms face.
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