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March 5th, 2010, 08:04 PM
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One slip up and I'm pregnant. I just knew it would turn out that way after it happened, so I wasn't shocked when the tests started turning positive. I was just about to sign up for a tubal too. I've been through so much. I just don't know if I can do it again. I'm trying to be happy about it, but really I've been suffering these last 5 months with depression, and BP issues, and I was just starting to feel better. I don't mean to sound ungrateful. I'm just nervous. Oh, and what if it's twins again. I really need some support.
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March 5th, 2010, 08:15 PM
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Thanks for the support. We have the room, and money isn't an issue. I guess I'm just worried about my health, but I tend to over worry about that. I'm definitely getting my tubes tied.
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March 5th, 2010, 08:16 PM
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After everything you've been through I would be nervous too. I hope everything goes smoothly and easily for you. Congrats!
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March 5th, 2010, 08:20 PM
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I know you've been through so, so much and this doesn't seem like a good time to be pregnant again, but it'll all work out. What does your husband think? Can he get a vasectomy while you're pregnant so that you can be sure that it works and won't happen after this baby is born? That's assuming you definitely this to be your last baby, but since you were planning on getting a tubal it makes sense. Keep positive and you'll pull through. You can always come here to vent.
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March 5th, 2010, 08:20 PM
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And to think there was a time I thought I would never have more kids. After Devon was born I wanted one more so bad. I tried for nearly 5 years, and just when I gave up I found out I was pregnant(with Nick). I never would have thought that I would be so fertile after all that. Anyway, sorry for rambling.

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I know you've been through so, so much and this doesn't seem like a good time to be pregnant again, but it'll all work out. What does your husband think? Can he get a vasectomy while you're pregnant so that you can be sure that it works and won't happen after this baby is born? That's assuming you definitely this to be your last baby, but since you were planning on getting a tubal it makes sense. Keep positive and you'll pull through. You can always come here to vent.
My husband had a vasectomy while I was pregnant with the twins. It didn't work so that's why I was going to do something permanent. I just didn't act quick enough. I haven't told him yet. I'm to nervous. He's been through so much helping me get better, that I don't know how he will take it. I feel so alone in this.
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March 5th, 2010, 08:54 PM
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Wow I'm not really sure what to say. You have my congratulations if that's what you want and you have my thoughts and prayers if that's what you need. I can understand why you're worried because I remember what you went though last time. I hope things go better for you this time.
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March 5th, 2010, 09:09 PM
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Sorry you are feeling stressed. I hope it all works out well for you...remember you have the support here. Don't really know what to say but remember you can always whine, vent, scream, talk--well, just about anything....here!!! will
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March 5th, 2010, 09:09 PM
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I am sorry? Or congrats?
IDK,. but like Vesta said, God only gives what you can handle. And you already have 9 little noses, one more will probably not do anything to ya. You're strong, and I know you'll get through it! Keep your head up mama! Remember we are here for you!

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March 5th, 2010, 09:13 PM
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Thanks for the Congrats and support. I really needed it.
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March 5th, 2010, 09:28 PM
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March 5th, 2010, 10:25 PM
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I'm going to say congrats...Halleigh and this baby will be close in age so they will have eachother to grow up with, seems how the twins are, well, twins, so they have eachother and now halleigh will have someone close to her age too...we are definitely here for you to support you and for you to vent anytime!
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March 5th, 2010, 11:27 PM
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You are amazing and strong woman...you can do this...

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March 6th, 2010, 12:48 AM
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Congratulations!

I can't even fathom what your thinking right now.. I just have a 2 year old and a 4 month old and my plate is full.. I can't even imagine what your days are like with one extra, then add on being pregnant..

Just remember, we are here for you if you need support or venting..

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