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April 25th, 2010, 06:08 PM
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your DH/SO wanted you to do a paternity test? i was thinking about that the other day and wondering if that would offend me. It would... but at the same time id be eager to do it to prove he baby's daddy!
would you be offended?
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April 25th, 2010, 06:42 PM
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ummm yes! There has to be that level of trust.

I think its so funny on shows like Maury where they go on to get the paternity test after they've been throwing insults at each other the whole time. At that point I'm pretty sure it wouldn't even matter .
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April 25th, 2010, 06:50 PM
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absolutely. Though Tom had told me if I had a baby w hair or brown eyes he'd have one done

If we weren't together long I wouldn't be.
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April 25th, 2010, 06:53 PM
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Actually it's kind of funny because Levi has blue eyes and lighter hair. We both have dark eyes and dark hair. If he didn't have the same face as his dad I'm sure there would be some question.
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April 25th, 2010, 07:08 PM
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i would be but only because i offered him the opportunity repeatedly when i was preggers and he didn't want it. so if he were to request it now it would only be a stall tactic to him paying child support.
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April 25th, 2010, 07:22 PM
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Um, after 12 years of marriage.. Yeah! Now, if he had been snipped BEFORE I got pregnant, different story. lol
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April 25th, 2010, 07:25 PM
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It's funny to see this post because we both discussed it as we were nervous about a mixup of DH's sample where we had our fertility treatments. But Ashlynn looked like him so much that we quickly dismissed the thought.
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April 25th, 2010, 08:19 PM
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If it were a new relationship, not at all... But after as long as we have been together (6years) YES!

But i totally would to prove a point and to gloat
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April 25th, 2010, 08:22 PM
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Yes! I would also want him to do it at the same time though to make him feel like an idiot when it showed it was his.. I've actually been thinking about this a little since jordan also has light hair and light eyes and everyone in both sides of our immediate families (well apart from my half siblings who look like their dads) have dark hair and dark eyes so everyone always makes jokes that jordan is the milk mans baby . I try not to let it get to me since I know the truth and I would hope he would know since I don't even leave the house really.. but it still annoys me to no end..
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April 25th, 2010, 09:28 PM
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Heck yeah I would be! Though all three kids have looked so much like him for the first few months I doubt that anyone would agree that one was needed.
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April 25th, 2010, 09:54 PM
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In my relationshiip, yes. But in the show Parenthood, the character completely had the right to ask when she shows up five years later. I just use this as an example, because she was offended at first. uh, yeah he wants to make sure. I guess to me it depends on the situation.
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April 25th, 2010, 10:30 PM
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Yes! I would be upset if he EVER asked that.. I know A.J looks like more of my side of the family, but I still see a little bit of my DH in him..
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April 25th, 2010, 10:43 PM
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her dad wanted me to get one, swore up and down the whole pregnancy that it wasn't his mind you he was the only guy i slept with in 5 years, peyton came out and wouldn't you know she looks exactly like him... no denying she's his
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April 26th, 2010, 05:08 AM
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YEs I would be offended
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April 26th, 2010, 05:43 AM
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We've been married for nearly 10 years so I'd definitely be upset. I'd think he'd lost his mind.
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