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February 7th, 2012, 03:09 PM
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How do you deal with jealousy?
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February 7th, 2012, 10:27 PM
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The best I can without pulling out my hair Elise is so jelous of the baby
If you were asking for me I don't get jelous to often
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February 8th, 2012, 08:54 AM
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For me or between kids?

Me, I don't really get jealous often. If I do, I usually tell the person nicely (in a joking way) and move on. I figure it is a fact of life that I will want what someone else has. Thankfully, nothing has made me jealous on a long-term basis.

With the kids, I have not had a lot of it to deal with. But I am wondering how I will handle it in the future. I would love to say I will be calm about it...but given I am not really a calm person, I am not sure yet. I do envision there will be plenty of jealousy to come though.
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February 8th, 2012, 11:13 AM
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For me? I just remind myself of what I do have
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February 8th, 2012, 11:30 AM
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I have a ton of things *I* am jealous of, but I just whine to myself and move on.
T gets jealous often and when he does we know we need to re-work things around here as it's always for the same reason: Hubby or I spending more time with C & B, and not enough with T.

I seem to forget (more often than I care to admit..) that during the week while T is at school I do things with the other two. But when T gets home, other than homework, dinner table discussions, and story time (with all 3) is just not enough for him. So I try to do an activity with just him, or him and C, while the hubs cooks dinner with B.. Of course I slack a bit, then when I notice T acting out again I start doing it again..
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