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May 29th, 2012, 01:07 PM
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I know we have talked about this before (a long time ago...). Who is done having kids? Who is going to or is having more? How many? Do you plan to foster/adopt of you aren't going to have more of your own?
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May 29th, 2012, 01:25 PM
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We always said we wanted 4, but I think we will wait until this one is a bit older before we go for the last one I don´t think I could cope with 4 under 5.

Also we want to wait until we move to Dh final posting so we can really settle down and buy a bigger house, 4 kids in under 800 sqft would kill me, 2 is bad enough! 3 will be a push!
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May 29th, 2012, 02:25 PM
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I'm done
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May 29th, 2012, 03:25 PM
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so done.
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May 29th, 2012, 05:10 PM
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Well we are done with the Bio children, but starting foster adoption.
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May 29th, 2012, 06:15 PM
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As much as I hate to say this, I think we're done with one. I just turned 39 and it doesn't look like it's going to happen for a lot of reasons.
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May 29th, 2012, 06:46 PM
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DH would like to be done. But I am not ready to be done. I want at least 4 bio. I wouldn't mind fostering or adopting a few when our kids get to be in middle and high school.
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May 29th, 2012, 08:39 PM
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99.9999% done, but we also don't use B/C But I also don't think I ovulate either (and have extremely irrigular cycles and we haven't used b/c in almost 2yrs and nothings happened).
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May 30th, 2012, 12:04 AM
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We are done biologically but we plan to adopt when we get our own place.
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May 30th, 2012, 06:25 AM
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4 is plenty! We are done. What about you Susan???
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May 30th, 2012, 06:37 AM
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We are both pretty sure we are done with 2, but not going to do anything permanent (to DH ) until next year. Probably will not adopt or foster, but there is always a possibility that we would add my niece to our family.
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May 30th, 2012, 08:35 AM
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We are done. I'd love to have another... but it doesn't seem to be in the cards. Deep down I feel like there is another child in my future though... I don't know why. So, we'll just see what happens.
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May 30th, 2012, 09:21 AM
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We don't prevent or plan the spacing or number of our kids. We're praying for more kids after this one. I'd love to have 7-10 (or more) kids but I guess we'll see how many God chooses to give us. I'll turn 34 a few weeks before #4 gets here so I'm not super young any more but also not super old either My mom had my four little sisters when she was between the age of 38-44. I am very open to adoption but I'm not sure financially how we would be able to manage but if it was God's will I know he would provide the necessary funds.
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May 30th, 2012, 10:53 AM
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We will have one more and then we are done.
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May 30th, 2012, 05:45 PM
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I would love, love, love to have 1 more little one to rock to sleep at night, but I think we are done. Financially another kid is not happening anytime soon, pregnancy is a nightmare for me and I'm not sure how I feel about the possibility of another little one with low muscle tone because its sooo sooo much stress and therapy and work. We haven't done anything permanent just yet. I guess I'm hoping that things change in a few years.
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May 30th, 2012, 10:53 PM
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We're not done. We just can't agree on when to start trying. Well, I can't agree...
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May 31st, 2012, 11:54 AM
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We're so done!! LOL
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May 31st, 2012, 09:34 PM
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We are pretty sure we are done after the twins. Not sure enough to have tubes tied, but the bedrest part of pregnancy is not for me...
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June 2nd, 2012, 11:31 AM
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I'm most likely done with one. DH is older and still not in the mood for going through the whole trying to conceive with medical intervention bit. My heart wishes for another one but it's going top have to say a wish.
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June 2nd, 2012, 12:00 PM
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We are not done yet but im barely getting the nerve to start trying again hopefully this month it took me more than a year to get pg with camila, so will will see how it goes, most likely we want only 2 at least i do lol if it was only up to DH we would have 4 or more.
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