[lil duckies mama]

Originally Posted by Mrs. Langley

Whoot whoot! Love me some Christina! Carol, perhaps you aren't aware, but there was indeed drama before now. We were attacked and bashed in the Jan pr, we were called cows, asked if the D in December stood for dumb and one expecially classy person claimed to "smell our pads from Canada". I'd qualify that as drama. All those nice comments and invitations came right after all the silliness on the Jan board. If this board is "dead" and there is no drama, they wouldn't have come here to begin with. I can't think of one single person that was asked to leave our fb group. Not one. The ones that left, did so on their own. Everyone was invited.

Wow I did not realize that and do apologize. I had no idea in the least that occurred. I am sorry and didn't mean anything by it. All I saw was the comments posted in this thread and I didn't see any harm in what they said. I just recently started posting in there because no one was ever on this board and I needed advice/questions etc.

I realize I left the FB one, and at the time I thought that was what was best for me because of what was going on/happening.

I would have asked for an invite back but I just assume that no one really wants me there even though I had been with you guys since the beginning. NO one asked me back either so I just left it as that.

Unfortunately I do have questions and concerns about my daughter and certain things and no one has been around to help but the Jan PR since Nov PR isn't really active on JM either.

Again I was not trying to start any drama. I had no clue what had happened. And I do sincerely apologize.

Originally Posted by Mrs. Langley

Whoot whoot! Love me some Christina! Carol, perhaps you aren't aware, but there was indeed drama before now. We were attacked and bashed in the Jan pr, we were called cows, asked if the D in December stood for dumb and one expecially classy person claimed to "smell our pads from Canada". I'd qualify that as drama. All those nice comments and invitations came right after all the silliness on the Jan board. If this board is "dead" and there is no drama, they wouldn't have come here to begin with. I can't think of one single person that was asked to leave our fb group. Not one. The ones that left, did so on their own. Everyone was invited.

Originally Posted by MeganLaRue

You know why the FB group was created - you were part of it for a long time - no one talked about anything there that they wouldn't have talked about here. Never once did I hear anyone say that they liked it better because they could talk about that you can't talk about here...

When the group was created we set our own "boundaries" and we have done really well with them.

Actually since you left the group I don't think there has been ANY drama -

The only reason I posted anything was b/c when I posted on their I was told that I'd be reported for not being "invited" to their "group". All I had said was that our group didn't fall apart - that for the most part we all still talk!

Tiffany mentioned that they were coming here to continue the drama...

Get over yourself Carol- no one wants to start Drama with you - we're content to let you live your life. Which is why I did not address you in my original response.

For those who belonged to the DDC way back when - the FB group was created shortly after our babies were born- if you were friends with ANYONE from here on FB you should have been added. If not I'm sooo sorry. Message me and I'll help you get in touch with the girls if you still want to.

Honestly I have no idea why that group was created. Many reasons I guess. I did not create it and was in it but really have no clue. I know for the longest everyone tried to keep up with both. I know it became much easier for most people because of load times, etc. Again I had no idea what happened with you guys and the Jan PR and just knew that there was drama attaching to this thread which I didn't mean for.

But now it is starting to make since and as I said before I am sorry. But the comment you made about no drama being on your FB since I left is a little mean since I had nothing to do with any of that except my little issue and it is very hurtful. Especially when I was not trying to be mean or hurtful.

[Mrs. Langley]

Yea, I wasn't sure if you knew about the drama that started a couple of days before in the other PR and how they were quite obviously trying to stir the pot. No harm. You really didn't have to appologize either, it's not an issue, I just wanted to clarify that I wasn't talking about you and/or any drama connected, it was about something else

[Mom2M&S]

I would like to clarify something. One of the Jan2010 members made the below post on our board (Jan2010)

"I was just creeping over at the Dec09PR and they have had 1 new topic since July 8th... that is 2 months...

Here we are just a month behid them and the #8 board on JM's and def have the ability to be #1... I am sure there are some members of the Dec09PR lurking here so post up!!!!!

And I am so proud of us that there is still such a large number of us so active!!!!"

Her intent was not to bash the December PR but to invite members that were still around to our PR that is extremely active. I would say that a PR w/ no posts in 2 months IS dead...what else would it be called? The fact that you have a group FB has nothing to do w/ her post-it was about the PR on JM which IS DEAD (or was until a few days ago).

It wasn't until Mrs. Langley began posting in an extremely defensive manner that things went downhill, fast. So truth be told it was YOU Mrs. Langley who started all the drama.


That being said, if you are in the DEC 2009 PR and would like some company...come and join us in the Jan 2010!

[Mrs. Langley]

Ummm, take it however you want to, but please refrain from coming to OUR board starting trouble which is exactly what the intent of your last post was. I did NOT go on your board starting drama, as a matter of fact, I made it clear that I even said I wasn't trying to sound rude. I was merely explaining that our GROUP had not died just because THIS board did. At that point, everyone starting making it about who was the better PR which is jsut plain ol silly. I also said that I was DONE with that post/board and that I wasn't going back, and I haven't. Please do the same here. Let's all be grown ups now and get away from the high school name calling and finger pointing. K? Thanks.

Oh, and regardless of how the "argument" about the boards went, I never resorted to name calling. I didn't talk about what the J in January must stand for, I didn't call anyone a cow, and I CERTAINLY didn't talk about the smell of any of your pads (*gag*). I left it all alone when I said I was. Too bad no one else can.

[lil duckies mama]

**Actually no, this has nothing to do with me...**

[Jacob&RylansMomma]

I've stayed completely out of this, but I have to at the fact that ya'll are so bothered by the pad comment. That was an old inside joke that none of you Dec 09 girls would understand.

[mysticalgal28]

Tiffany, you took what I orginally posted out of context. I truly was just proud of us for sticking with JM's and so many of us to boot. The whole post got blown way out of control. I am glad you guys have stuck together... I truly did follow you ladies during my pregancy. I even posted here and there over here being that I have a December baby myself. I never said one bad thing about your guys, but yet I am the one respobsible for everything. Because my words weren't taken the way I meant for them to take.

As far as telling us to stay away from this board... You guys came to our page defending yourselves... so now i am gonna defend myself.

[Mrs. Langley]

Originally Posted by mysticalgal28

Tiffany, you took what I orginally posted out of context. I truly was just proud of us for sticking with JM's and so many of us to boot. The whole post got blown way out of control. I am glad you guys have stuck together... I truly did follow you ladies during my pregancy. I even posted here and there over here being that I have a December baby myself. I never said one bad thing about your guys, but yet I am the one respobsible for everything. Because my words weren't taken the way I meant for them to take.

As far as telling us to stay away from this board... You guys came to our page defending yourselves... so now i am gonna defend myself.

Actually, you know what? I DIDN'T take what YOU said out of context. I wasn't upset or offended AT ALL, and I THOUGHT I said that when I responded, I did NOT try to "start drama" or be ugly. I was simply trying to clarify, I just wanted it known that we didn't just bail on each other. ... THAT'S when it got ugly. It was NOT your original post that started problems (imo), and I din't think my response was going to either.

As far as the pad thing, I'm not so much bothered by the meaning of it, it being an inside joke is of no importance to me at all. I just think it's absolutely nasty, no matter WHAT you mean by it. It is gross, uncalled for and immature.

[lil duckies mama]

Roses are read
Violets are blue
This board is dead
And this thread is too


Thanks, have a nice day!

[mysticalgal28]

OK... I am done... I just wanted to make sure that I personally didn't say anything that offended you.... sorry for starting all of this. Hope everyone can just put this BS behind us. If anyone wants to stay on JM's they are more than welcome to come join us... not to boast our ranking, but to share questions, concerns, and bragging about our LO's... that is what this is all about isn't it.. our sweet babies... not all our grown women drama...

Again sorry if I offened anyone in this PR... it was not my intention...

And PS.. Pads are gross!!! Worst thing about after having a baby is having to wear them

[Mrs. Langley]

Thank you. It's nice that you expressed your intentions and feelings and then actually listened to the other side. It's even nicer that you then decided to put the dramatics behind you (us). Adults should be able to do that and move on instead of going on and on and on, etc. I agree that it's about the kids and not ACTING like kids Hope all is well.

PS I totally agree, pads just gross me out, and the mile long pillow ones they give you after you have a baby are the worst!

[jacinthe]

wow i never knew this much thank god i kept in contact with most of you's through fb not on the pr page i was invited but dumb dumb me deleted it after doing a massive cleanup and now i cannot join back as it looks like i left oh well i still chat with most of you's but this does make sad a bit as we all came together through our journey into motherhood and then all the up and downs of motherhood and look now we are all falling apart now this is to no one in particular but it's sad to see total strangers arguing over childish stuff i mean we are raising kids for the future shouldn't we be teaching them though our behaviour how to act civil to one another so makes me want to go back in time when things were less complicated well anyways i'll still drop by once in awhile on here and those of you's that i have on fb well i'll chat with ya next time