I actually let Ky 'play' with a toy regularly when in the store, and it never comes home with us. It was rough at first, but he's really learned that this is just the way it is. Depending on the day, it takes longer than others to convince him it stays behind, but I always make sure that it was his decision to leave it. My go to line is always "we'll play with it next time we come back". This has helped greatly with store visits, Midwife office toys, friends houses toys etc. I'm always such a proud mommy when he agrees and puts it away himself

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