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Ok so I am starting to worry today... last night I had a very realisitic nightmare that I went to the bathroom and started bleeding and lost the baby... and in the dream it was TODAY specifically. It was one of those dreams you can't tell if it was real when you wake up or not...
Well today now, I am not feeling a lot of the symptoms I have been having each day. My boobs aren't really tender at all today, even when I squeeze the heck out of them trying to make them so.... and I don't really have the nausea today I have been having each morning. Also I slept better last night (minus the nightmare anyway) and didn't wake up in the middle of the night to pee. And nothing else is standing out as a symptom to me today either.
My temp was higher today, so I am trying not to worry, but I know that isn't going to tell me for sure either way. I can't help but worry that it was one of those intuition dreams.... At least there was no spotting yet this morning, but I am sure I am going to be freaking out the next couple days...
I have 6 tests left over and I am trying to ration them out until my first appointment when I have an u/s and am hoping to hear the HB.... but that is still 2 weeks and a day away so I can't be taking them all now lol. I might take one tomorrow though if the symptoms don't come back....
You are not beign silly, just comes with the territory of pregnancy. I have the same feelings, I POS yesterday to make sure my line was darker, than of course my symptoms came back in full force. And today I am feeling good. If you think POS will make you feel better than do it. Try to relax and have a great weekend!!
I think it's perfectly normal to worry. If I had a dream like that I know that I would be freaking out. I would just try to remember that it was only a dream. Huge hugs!
I'm gonna have to at least hold off til tomorrow to test... or I am NEVER going to make it to the 17th with the tests I have left. And I don't want to buy more, dh thinks it was weird that I bought some already when I had gotten my FRER positive on my last one lol.
ok, my nerves got the better of me! I tested, and it is SUPER dark. The test line is almost exactly as dark as the control line, and that was well before the 3 minutes were up.... as it dries I am sure it is only going to be more obvious.
It is darker than yesterday's which is the important part, but at the same time I can't really compare them straight across. Yesterday's was taken with FMU, and this one was taken with 2MU, and I only had a small amount of pee to catch in the cup lol. I also think I am one of those people who's levels are actually higher throughout the day than with FMU.... both time I have been pregnant now I have gotten quite early bfp's with midday urine... and sometimes the FMU's have been slightly lighter.
Anyway I feel better about it now, but I still wish the symptoms would come back... and it is going to be a while I think before I am completely done worrying after that nightmare! I never really get pregnancy dreams, so when I do I pay attention!
I don't believe in predictive dreams. I think dreams reflect what we're thinking about, our fears and worries, so it makes sense that you dream of m/c, since that's what you're focused on. Don't put too much stock in it - it's just a dream. I'm glad the line was dark!
Don't worry and enjoy feeling well while it lasts!
That is the mindset I am trying to keep. I have been feeling perfectly normal the past 3 days and I just keep telling myself to enjoy it while I can.....this is probably the calm before the storm.
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Alicia, although I believe some dreams can be intuitive (since they happen to me almost all the time), it doesn't mean that's what's happening to you. A friend of mine told me few days ago she had a dream she was bleeding and she lost the baby, then in that SAME night she had another dream she was NEVER pregnant. It's fears, sweety. DH asks me too why am I always testing if it's obvious but I explained to him he'll never fully understand what us women go through at this very early stage in pregnancy. It's scary and very overwhelming.
I'm so happy your line is darker, that's a VERY good sign. Don't worry and don't think too much about it. You don't have to have symptoms every single day. That friend of mine who had those 2 dreams, in the very beginning of her pregnancy, like around 3-4 weeks pregnant, she threw up once, was queasy and very, very sleepy and sluggish. Now she's 6 weeks and 6 days pregnant and all she has is fatigue. Symptoms do change. Yesterday I was more tired than I am today. Keep in mind it also depends on what we do during the day and if it's different from each day. Sometimes I notice more nausea and more hot flashes one day than the next. Lately I haven't been having a lot of CM and I was freaking out about that, too, but then earlier it came back. It's just the way pregnancy symptoms can be.
Like some others said, enjoy it while it lasts because your symptoms MAY just come on full force. NO FUN!! lol =D
well this morning I felt really wet down there and I was still in bed. It was pretty dark and out of habit I just reached down there and felt and looked and I SWORE I saw blood. I started panicing, my heartbeating like crazy and then I realized it wasn't blood. I almost posted this asking if it was a sign.. I hope not.
You're probubly fine. But it's so easy for me to say that because *I* didn't have your dream.
Valleysmom07, I wouldn't worry. I sit here and sometimes feel "stuff" come out and I'm thinking...OMG...PERIOD?????!!! NO WAY!!!!....then when I check, it's either CM or actually NOTHING. It's sickening what pregnancy can do to our brains.
Dreams are dreams, you are being silly, lol. And if it makes you feel any better, my boobs aren't really sore anymore either. I remember them being very sore when I was pregnant with Collin for a long time. Maybe because this is our second child our breasts don't have to change as much and aren't as sore? Just a theory, I really have no clue. Anyway, hugs. Sorry you had such a realistic and scary dream. I had a few of those when I was pregnant with Collin and the pregnancy was obviously fine.
You had a dream about what you were most scared of...
read through the February DDC board, and you'll see that they were constantly worried that their symptoms would come and go...it seemed to happen to everyone...
I would say, take an HPT tomorrow morning to ease your mind that your bean is doing well...
I had about 10 tests, and already went through all of them and got 4 more, cause I want to keep taking them every day...now I only have two left so I think I'm going to get more so that I can test through my first U/S...but, then again, I'm probably completely craZy
lol I did buy two answer tests today while at the store to add to my stash... so I should have like 7 left now (2 answer, 1 frer, and 4 IC's). I also stopped at the dollar store to try to get a few there, but they were out.
I took a pic of today's test and will try to upload it later on to share. Symptoms still gone for the most part.
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I'm sure you are too.
That is the mindset I am trying to keep. I have been feeling perfectly normal the past 3 days and I just keep telling myself to enjoy it while I can.....this is probably the calm before the storm. 
I started panicing, my heartbeating like crazy and then I realized it wasn't blood. I almost posted this asking if it was a sign..
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