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December 3rd, 2009, 03:39 PM
CanadianLou's Avatar Laura - mom of 3
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Ok, so I suppose I'm a bit dissapointed that we didn't find out the gender today...but if I hear ONE more person say to me "Oh you should wait til the baby is born to find out for a suprise anyways" or "That is ok, as long as you know it's healthy I think that is enough" or "Oh well, I don't think people should find out anyways, I hope the baby hides so you have to wait" I am going to SCREAM! uggg...

OF COURSE I am so happy that my baby is healthy. I was so happy to see him/her today. But we were just dissapointed that we did not find out the gender. We waited until our DD was born to find out her gender and that was fun and all, but this time we both agree we want to find out, and so does our DD.....so what' the big deal??? I know what I'm missing out on by not waiting and I had that experience already....

I think it's just hormones and being a bit upset that we couldn't find out today. I usually don't let stuff like this bother me, but it does today...ugg.... I'll get over it. Thanks for listening again ladies!
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December 3rd, 2009, 04:15 PM
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that would drive me nuts. people need to just shut up
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December 3rd, 2009, 04:18 PM
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Sorry it didn't go quite as planned and it sucks that people have to make it worst. Hope you get to find out soon!
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December 3rd, 2009, 04:38 PM
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Vent away sweetie I'd be annoyed as anything with those comments too, why people can't mind their own dang business is beyond me!
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December 3rd, 2009, 04:51 PM
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I got those reactions, too..."You should wait." "That's good that the baby hid." It annoyed me, but I chose to brush it off. It's annoying that they are constantly airing their opinions about YOUR baby, but try to remember that it's JUST their opinion.
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December 3rd, 2009, 05:18 PM
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Agh I wish people could keep their mouths shut!
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December 3rd, 2009, 06:25 PM
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People always seem to have a desire to make sure you have the same experience they think is best, rather than what you want! Crazy. Hope you find out next week.
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December 3rd, 2009, 06:35 PM
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Dont you love people giving their opinions when it really wasnt asked for Im am sorry you didnt get to find out today..I know I would be super disappointed. I was excited to hear what you were having! Keeping my fingers crossed for next week!!
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December 3rd, 2009, 06:36 PM
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That's annoying. I don't know why people care whether you find out the gender or not!
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December 3rd, 2009, 06:41 PM
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people are obnoxious about other people's pregnancies. I don't know why so many feel entitled to make comments about what moms should/should not do -- everything from birth plans to names to weight gain to feeding to dressing - ugh!

I would tell them to have their own baby if they want a surprise.
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December 3rd, 2009, 08:01 PM
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hahaha Thanks Ladies...some of your comments made me giggle. I should tell them to have their own babies if they want a suprise. I am ok with not finding out I think I was more upset with how dissapointed Rylee was and how other people said they were HAPPY I didn't find out....I was like "What you're happy I'm not happy?" LOL I am feeling better though. We still took Rylee out to Red Lobster anyways, we had planned to go there to celebrate...but even though we didn't find out we still have a good night out!

You Ladies are the best!!
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December 3rd, 2009, 09:57 PM
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That would annoy me too!! I'll never understand why people feel the need to say things like that. Especially when you've made it clear you wanted to know and you are disappointed.
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