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We're still at it on an almost daily basis, but I'm really not into it at all. I just feel so ridiculous and mostly...it just makes me feel like I have to go to the bathroom the entire time. Really yucky feeling.
For those that said they provide "other services," I'm totally there with ya! That just made me laugh, because I was wondering if I was the only one who feels the desire to "take care of" DH during one of my bad weeks. LOL
Anyway, maybe I can help someone out with a new position idea! We've tried just about every position, and these are the ones that work:
~me on top (unless my hips are doing badly that day)
~me lying on my back while DH stands beside bed (without his weight on me, I can be on my back longer without problems)
~doggie style (always a fave, LOL)
Positions that DON'T work for us:
~spooning, because this causes me a lot of pain for some reason
~missionary style (obvious reason: I'm squished, LOL)
What's that? It's been so long that I can't even remember. I haven't had since we found out. I know shame on me. But I am on pelvic rest the first trimester, then I got an UTI, then hemoroids, then I was sick, then he was working a lot of overtime, then I got sick, then he got sick and then I got sick...It is always something. GRRRR!!
well it's been so long (dh's choice, not really mine) that I can't remember the last time... but you've made me feel better that I'm not missing much LOL sorry things aren't comfortable for you!
ditto - I think we last had sex at the end of Nov - DH gets all weird about the baby moving. It sucked for a while, but I'm over it now. Good for those of you still getting some! Oh, and P.S. I'm not taking care of things for him at all either... it's not my choice to not have sex and unfortunately DH doesn't do much to make me happy these days. Call me stubborn or spiteful, but so be it.
We have been dtd a lot lately! I think it is interesting to hear that so many of you are so dry down there, I am the TOTAL opposite! Dh is really turned on by my belly so our sex life gets better and better the further along we get in a pregnancy. Lol! I LOVE pregnant sex I think it feels amazing!
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We are DTD anywhere from 1-3 times a week on average. I still really enjoy it (although it takes a lot more effort on DH's part). The biggest reason we don't do it more often is because we just don't make time for it or one of us is too tired.
Well except for our attempt the other night I couldn't remember the last time we did. I just have no sex drive at all (not that I have much of one when I'm not pregnant either) so DH is totally deprived and he's whiny about it to.
Mieghan- is it better for you now that your're preggo in a physical sense, or psychologically as you don't have to worry about birth control or getting pregnant? I ask because my favorite part of pregnancy sex is not having to think about my cycle or wonder if we'll end up making a baby! It's so pressure free!
Marcia- I end up feeling like I have to pee as well. It gets really bad towards the very end and thats usually when we stop doing it- those last couple of weeks I swear I'm going to pee each time we try. So it ends up that I keep stopping us so that I can go try to pee, but then its the same feeling when we resume. At that point it becomes not worth it! LOL!
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