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February 7th, 2010, 07:53 PM
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I posted on Facebook that Chris sold his CRX and that we could buy baby stuff now.... a supposed friend pretty much told me to get a job. I don't know why this is pissing me off so much but my face is burning hot.
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February 7th, 2010, 07:58 PM
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I saw that post on FB and was thinking what she said didn't even really make sense with your post. It just seemed so random of her.
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February 7th, 2010, 08:07 PM
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She's known to make "passive-aggressive" comments. But it did seem like a really odd post.
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February 7th, 2010, 08:14 PM
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I absolutely HATE people like that! Im sorry that person was so rude. I'd be pissed too.
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February 7th, 2010, 08:34 PM
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ugg, I really don't like when people say crap like that, and I agree with Kim, seemed pretty random. I know some passive aggressive people like that too, it really drives me up the wall.
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February 7th, 2010, 09:09 PM
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There are a lot of ignorant people in this world...unfortunately they are the ones that like to open their mouths a lot, ha!
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February 8th, 2010, 03:14 AM
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I think that's probably a common problem with Facebook.. update your status and everyone thinks you want their opinion!!
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February 8th, 2010, 03:43 AM
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oh i would be annoyed too!! when i went on maternity leave someone said to me "Oh you are a bum now just like the rest of us" (bum = lazy!)
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February 8th, 2010, 04:43 AM
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How rude! I don't know what the comment was - but it sounds really hurtful. And it is pretty common to change your lifestyle for financial reasons when you find out you are having a baby. My hubby sold his motorcycle for financial reasons and safety reasons when we found out we were expecting. Very normal. And really none of her business why you did it --
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February 8th, 2010, 05:39 AM
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And then to turn around and blame YOUR hormones? Wow. It's so, so hard not to respond on there with something like "Maybe you should use the money for some friends that can show a little respect" or something along those lines.

You have so much going on in your life. And besides, you have a job! I'm sure you work a lot more and a lot harder than whatever she does.
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February 8th, 2010, 05:49 AM
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Why is it any of her business what you do to obtain cash to support your family? Geez. That would piss me off, too.
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February 8th, 2010, 06:28 AM
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What an obnoxious thing to say! I've never worked so hard in my life now that I'm at home. My old job was a breeze compared to this
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February 8th, 2010, 07:10 AM
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Yeah, she blamed my hormones for getting upset. I thought my husbands comment was hilarious. It was passive-aggressive in response. She doesn't work, she lives off her G.I. Bill from when she was in the military, thats what Chris meant by his comment.

I guess all his friends at work are talking about the exchange...
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February 8th, 2010, 09:20 AM
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Oh no she didn't. It ain't no of her business how you support your family. If I could away with no working I wouldn't be working either. She is probably jealousy.
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February 8th, 2010, 12:16 PM
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That is rude!!! I would be pissed too... I agree that she is probably jealous.. Just keep letting ur hubby deal with it.. don't stress not worth it!!
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February 8th, 2010, 12:58 PM
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What was your hubbys comment?

Obviously she doesnt know how much daycare costs. Dont let her get to you Beth. She's just jealous.
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February 8th, 2010, 02:18 PM
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Chris made a comment that he could just give me his GI Bill and I could claim that was my job instead - which is what she is doing.

I don't understand why some people look so negatively at SAHM's. Chris sold his CRX because we bought a mini van and we have a Trailblazer. We didn't need his little car. Since we owned it outright it was pretty much pure cash in our pockets and so we figured we could knock out the rest of our baby items.
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February 8th, 2010, 06:19 PM
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She's not worth the aggravation... If your not spending her money she shouldn't tell you what to do with yours..
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February 9th, 2010, 07:35 AM
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ugh i hate ignorant people like that!!
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February 9th, 2010, 07:48 AM
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I am really starting to hate facebook...
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