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March 31st, 2010, 04:31 PM
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i completely agree. It has been one of those days... My heart is hurting for Stace. So I think a group hug is exactly what we need.
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March 31st, 2010, 04:31 PM
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Right there with you all!!! Tough day for sure!
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March 31st, 2010, 04:32 PM
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March 31st, 2010, 04:33 PM
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March 31st, 2010, 04:39 PM
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Very rough day My heart hurts!

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March 31st, 2010, 04:44 PM
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March 31st, 2010, 04:48 PM
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March 31st, 2010, 04:58 PM
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aww, I was thinking the same thing.
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March 31st, 2010, 05:10 PM
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i agree, it has been one of those days
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March 31st, 2010, 05:11 PM
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Very much needed.
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March 31st, 2010, 05:21 PM
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Yep And I think i'm going to be a single mum now...
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March 31st, 2010, 05:22 PM
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Yep And I think i'm going to be a single mum now...
Whats going on? Im so sorry...(((HUGS)))
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March 31st, 2010, 05:22 PM
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just can't stop crying...
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March 31st, 2010, 05:44 PM
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and T&P for the ones who are feeling down today!!
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March 31st, 2010, 05:45 PM
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He is just making me feel like sh*t. I can't be myself, do anything or say anything.

I saw a fledgling young pigeon today getting pecked to death by a group of crows, he was under my car trying to hide from them. So I shoo'ed them away, gathered the pigeon up and took him to mum cause I had to go to work. They had almost pecked his eye out. She called the RSPCA and they took him away said he should be okay. So I tell OH (I am all happy and feel good that I saved the wee guys life)and all I get is abuse (immediately making me feel like sh*t). I shoulda left it to die etc... I just can't be with someone so HEARTLESS.

My mum and I are also SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO close. It's just been me and her for years (been through a LOT, which is not good for public viewing). I said I wanted her at the hospital and he said no. If your mums there I want my mum there too. I was like GRAAAHHH!!! DOESN'T WORK LIKE THAT!!! I want her there for the labour, not the birth. Surely thats fair? He is so impatient I know I will kill him when i'm lying there in agony and he is playing on his DS or something! Nowadays he just doesn't care. I swear. If there wasn't a TV we wouldn't talk. Mum has the same medical condition as me, she has been here too. She is more useful than he is. That and... I just want my mummy!? Her health is terrible and I don't see her making it by 60. Is it such a crime to want her involved. Im her only daughter. Surely your little girl having a baby is more momentous that your son? His mother has 2 other girls to share this with. My mother is my best friend. After all we have been through I have lost all my friends. All of them. It is just me and her. Sad to admit but true. I don't have a social life, or girls I can ring up for a chat, or meet for lunch.

He tells me how I feel and things. I have a medical condition. So looking at baby carry seats I pick one up... "Oh too heavy for me" He picks it up and tells me no it isn't... It's fine/

TRUST ME... IT IS HEAVY!!!I am not spending money on something that I cannot carry, considering i'd be the one with the baby since he will be working all hours under the sun.

So, last straw today, with the pigeon. Trivial, but if he can't accept the way I am, that I love animals and that my mum is a HUGE part of me and such then it won't work. I can't imagine bringing my baby up with someone who would tell their son/daughter to walk away if they saw a poor little animal getting killed. When they could help.

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March 31st, 2010, 07:30 PM
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March 31st, 2010, 07:33 PM
mrsdaiwa24's Avatar Amy, soon-to-be-mama of 2
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First of all, I agree.... You girls have become so important to me.

Gemma, I'm sorry that you're going through this. I don't know what to tell you other than to do what makes you happy. (I will say you have every right to be angry about the pigeon incident today -- and good for you for helping a poor defenseless little creature). It sucks, plain and simple.
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March 31st, 2010, 08:33 PM
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March 31st, 2010, 10:16 PM
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First of all, for everyone. I know I'm late getting on, but it definitely seems like one of those days. You ladies are all wonderful!

Second, Gemma, I'm so sorry you are dealing with this. The pigeon incident would really bother me, too. Along with wanting your mom beside you. I know it is such a difficult decision to make (and one I've had to make before, too). It's one of the hardest. Follow your heart (cheesey, I know!). You'll know the right decision to make, even if it isn't the easiest. And we are always here for you, too!
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