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I'm so undecided. Somedays I'm thinking, "no way in he** do I want to do this again!" and other days I can totally picture us having another. Definitely not now, but maybe sometime in the future? I guess I'll wait and see how I feel in about a year. I don't want to have them too far apart if we do decide on another.
I am TOTALLY on the fence! Hubby feels finished, but I know he could most likely be convinced if I decided to have another. Some days it's battle to keep my sanity with the boys, but that's how it is being stuck inside for the winter. In summer things are much more relaxed because they can be as loud as they want outside and there is space to run around. Plus next year my oldest will be in school for 6 hours vs the 2.5 hours he is there now.
IF we do decide to have another, I know we wouldn't TTC for at least another year, so we have time to see how things are going.
I think we're both on the fence, vacillating wildly back and forth. Sure we're done one day, and then joking about more the next. So, we've agreed to not make any firm decisions one way or the other for a couple years, and then revisit the question. But, we're impatient people, so by then I bet we'll already either be trying to conceive or getting snipped! Haha!
I got my tubes tied with this last one. Our first two where about 18 months apart. After having DD we knew we wanted more, but after our son.....we went back and forth for years. The one thing I always said was if we have not had another or decided by the time I was 35 just the two would do. Well 35 came....we got rid of all the baby stuff and yup you guessed it.....PG.
Its crazy.....I have moments where I look at our lil man......and I'm like...."thats a baby"....LOL