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May 9th, 2011, 01:18 PM
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I went back to the dr's today. there was no change from last week. he said the high resolution ultrasound showed a large bleed behind the baby's placenta. I thought I saw tat last week when I was watching tyhe ultrasound but hoping I was wrong - it was the entire length of the placent and about 1/3 the width of the gestational sac. supposedly that is not a common thing - or so they always tell me - yet the twins I lost when pregnant with natalie had one, natalie had a small one, and now this baby has one. I still measured 6w 1d (which is what he measured last wednesday when I should have measured 6w 3d). Now I am just waiting to see if it takes care of itself naturally. the dr wanted to do a d&c today - but hubby is deployed and family is 2500 miles away so not possible when I have a 1 year old. I go back next week to see what is happening.
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May 9th, 2011, 01:20 PM
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May 9th, 2011, 01:20 PM
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May 9th, 2011, 01:23 PM
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May 9th, 2011, 01:37 PM
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Im sorry Shannon.
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May 9th, 2011, 01:40 PM
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I am sorry Shannon
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May 9th, 2011, 01:45 PM
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So sorry that you are going through this Shannon.
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May 9th, 2011, 02:15 PM
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I'm so sorry. I was hoping for better news. Hugs to you.
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May 9th, 2011, 02:20 PM
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I am so sorry Prayers and hugs for you. <3
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May 9th, 2011, 02:33 PM
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So sorry, Shannon. Big hugs.
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May 9th, 2011, 03:55 PM
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May 10th, 2011, 05:54 AM
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May 10th, 2011, 09:45 AM
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May 12th, 2011, 07:17 PM
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May 12th, 2011, 07:33 PM
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May 13th, 2011, 01:59 PM
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I am so sorry. Not that it is pleasant but is there anyway they could maybe give you the drugs rather than the a D&C? I know that metheltrexate (sp?) can be used. There has to be another way other than a D&C.
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May 13th, 2011, 05:58 PM
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I am so sorry. Not that it is pleasant but is there anyway they could maybe give you the drugs rather than the a D&C? I know that metheltrexate (sp?) can be used. There has to be another way other than a D&C.
Yeah they can - I refused those too. I just think they jump to quick instead of letting your body see what it is going to do. there have been a few times I thought it was going to start becasue I get terribly crampy at night - but then nothing. I go back to the dr again monday. He will try to talk me into a D&C which again I will refuse. I figure I was going to tell him to do another HCG - if it is going down I will take the meds to speed things up a little - if they go up at all I will request another scan before I decide if I am going to take the meds. The only reason is becasue there have been cases where drs were wrong and the baby showed up at 8 or 9 weeks - not saying this is one but if by some chance they were wrong and the meds were taken once you take them and they find out they were wrong you have no choice but to abort becasue the MEDS will cause severe issues with a baby that survives them - I would never be able to deal with it if I took meds thinking there baby didnt develop and then find out I killed the baby by taking the meds.
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May 14th, 2011, 04:27 PM
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Shannon I am very sorry you are going through this. I hope things work itself out soon, so you can find some piece of mind.
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