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April 10th, 2014, 12:50 AM
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So I'm 33 weeks along now in my pregnancy and since the beginning of it my husband has been very insensitive to me. We have been married almost 2 years, but we have always had a rocky relationship. Early on in our marriage we had separated and almost divorced due to his drinking. We got back together and eventually he got sober, and very shortly after I found out I was pregnant with our first child. From the beginning we immediately had problems, he wanted me not to work so the baby could have a full time parent, which was fine. But then the arguments started to ensue, he seemed to get mad so quickly and he would throw things, or instigate fights. He had a few drinking relapses and what I saw to be bizzare and irrational behavior (basically he got drunk and started knocking on our neughbors doors at 2am, accused me of cheating, broke our bathroom door) needless to say at only 11 weeks pregnant I moved from.Washington (where we are based) to my hometown in Florida. We remained in contact just wuth much needed distance, and I stayed in contact with family, but my family situation became stressful (mom has history of mental illness) and her put downs and constanst criticism of my life choices eventually ran me back to Washington when I was 6 months pregnant. Ever since I've been back it's been a constanst emotional roller coaster. We get into fights and then next day it's like nothing happened. We argue over almost everything. I feel a lack of emotional maturity from him, because I will try to communicate my feelings and he will usually turn things around on me. He has even walked away in the middle of me talking, laughed at me, or ignored me completely. He has also been deceptive and I've caught him lying (usually white lies.) He has also begun saying rude and derogotory things about women around me, and he knows how upsetting that is to me, because of my family backround and what I went through. It feels like he doesn't care. Eventually, he apologizes but always continues this behaviour. I feel like he doesn't care and that I'm putting in all this effort. We started counceling, but I'm not sure its going to be enough. I just want my baby to have a Father.
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