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November 15th, 2010, 05:20 PM
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Hey ladies! Congrats to you all!
Hubby and I found out we were pregnant about a week ago. This is number three for us. (wow, crazy to write that). I have a 3yo and a 15 mo. We were NOT expecting this pregnancy! That being said, I also fully knew it was possible... We had a "night of passion" if you will, where we didn't use protection (I don't use bc), and the next day I was pretty sure I ovulated. (gotta love what you can determine based on cervical fluid). So, while I was shocked to see a positive, a also wasn't... If all that makes sense!

Anyway! All this to say, I'm so blown away by my mixed emotions! I full on wanted another child. People would ask my husband and I if we planned for another baby and I would immediately say "yes!", while he would say "no". I also LOVE child birth! I am a doula and love to support women as they experience the amazing journey into motherhood. I guess I just expected to become pregnant when it was planned and my hubby was on board. Don't get me wrong, he's definitely supportive now! Ugh... It's just so surreal for some reason! I hate the first trimester for that reason. I feel and look exactly the same.

<sigh> thank you for reading my many words. I haven't really talked to anyone about my feelings. I appreciate the lended ear!
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November 15th, 2010, 05:28 PM
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Awww...of course! My baby is a surprise too! Lots of emotions there, so I can totally relate. This board is so supportive and user friendly that I'm sure whatever you need, venting, advice, etc. you'll find what you need. Welcome!
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November 15th, 2010, 05:34 PM
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There are several women here who were....well... surprised by their new arrival... You will find lots and lots of support here.
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November 15th, 2010, 05:55 PM
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Hiii and welcome, and grats! yeah, there lots of surprise bebe's in this DDC! It is awesome you found Justmommies, it really is a great support team during pregnancy! you will love it!
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November 15th, 2010, 06:08 PM
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Hi and welcome! This baby, #4 for us, was also a suprise! And we were both "done" having children so Im full of mixed emotions!! Glad to have you here! Feel free to vent whenever you want!!
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November 15th, 2010, 06:48 PM
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Hi and welcome!! I am sure some of your expertise will be appreciated around here!! Looking forward to getting to know you better!! CONGRATS!!!
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November 15th, 2010, 07:23 PM
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Congrats and welcome! I'm sure it's a hard adjustment when you weren't intentionally TTC... But I'm sure once he/she gets here, all your worries & fears will go away and things will fall into place
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November 15th, 2010, 07:29 PM
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Thank you so much ladies! I've never been on boards with my other pregnancies. (although I lurked some!) looking forward to being a part of this group!
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November 15th, 2010, 07:56 PM
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Congrats and Welcome. I'm kinda in the same boat. Kinda. I've wanted another since my last was born and constantly bugged my dh about it. it was a very last second decision on his part and i O'd the next day. I'm excited about it, but worried at the same time.
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November 16th, 2010, 05:44 AM
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wow, we have a lot in common! This is my #3 (I have an almost 3 year old and a 14 mo old) and we had an oopsie like that around o time too! it's such a shock but not surprising either - i totally understand! hugs, welcome, and congrats!
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November 16th, 2010, 07:04 AM
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HI and welcome, I am Amanda and this is baby #5 for us...and it was a total suprise baby too!! I understand your emotions 100% I look forward to getting to know you.
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November 16th, 2010, 07:12 AM
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While our lil bean wasn't a surprise...well maybe surprised it happen so quickly I can understand how you are feeling. I'm expecting number 6 and at times I wonder if I'm insaine! I can't wait to watch your lil bean grow and change over the next 9 months!
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November 16th, 2010, 11:20 AM
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Congrats and welcome! I am somewhat in the same boat as this is #3 and I am somewhat surprised by the pg'y. I was completely in shock for #2 though so I can totally relate to the feelings your having right now.
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