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  #21  
January 20th, 2011, 10:44 PM
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Oh Brandi. I hadn't seen you around and was hoping you had just taken a random vacation... I'm praying for you and your husband. I love having you around, so please keep come post whenever, you won't bring anyone down.

You're strong and have gone through so much, you should only have happiness in life. It will come, in a little pink bundle sometime in June. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers and hope to have you around.
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  #22  
January 21st, 2011, 03:13 AM
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Sorry to hear this hun.

It shouldn't have happened at all but particularly on a week that was hard for you anyway with you reaching your milestone.

Take all the time you need and try to have some relaxation time.
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January 21st, 2011, 03:41 AM
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I'm so, so sorry Brandi! Like others have said, I can't begin to understand the pain you are going through but I want you to know that you and your family are in my prayers. We will miss you and will always be here when you're ready to talk.
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January 21st, 2011, 03:53 AM
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Brandi, I'm so sorry to hear this. Big Hugs
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January 21st, 2011, 05:21 AM
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im so sorry brandi, there are some evil people out there hunni and all they are out to do is hurt people, you and ur DH dont deserve this at all, hope you can get back on track soon and see you on here again *hugs* xxx
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January 21st, 2011, 05:32 AM
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I'm so very sorry that this has happened.
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January 21st, 2011, 05:42 AM
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I am in shock right now. I am so sorry. Take all the time that you need to heal. We will be here for you when you are ready. I will be keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
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January 21st, 2011, 05:54 AM
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I can't even believe I just read that ((HUGS)) Brandi! Some people are just sick. I don't understand HOW somebody could lie about that. Did the adoption agency require an u/s or something to confirm that there ever was a baby? I feel so horrible for you You don't deserve any of this. I hope that you can come back here when you are ready. If you ever want to talk you can PM me, I don't have any experience with any of what you have been through but I am a good listener. ((HUGS))
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January 21st, 2011, 06:05 AM
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Brandi, I'm so sorry, this is so unfair and I can't imagine what kind of person could do something like that to another person. I'm praying for you and your husband can move on to happier times with little Ally. God bless.
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January 21st, 2011, 06:28 AM
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Oh Brandi! My heart breaks for you and your DH. I can't believe how cruel some people truly are. Lots of thoughts and prayers are coming your way through this difficult time. We'll be here with open arms when ever you are ready to return to us.
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January 21st, 2011, 07:21 AM
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I am in shock as well, there is a limit as to how much a person should have to take! My heart is breaking for your loss, and hope that you take all the time you need to properly grieve and mourn. Don't let anyone try to take away your grief -your sweet Marleigh was as real to you as Ally is and the loss of a dream is just as hard as a physical loss. Remember when you are ready that we will take all the negative energy you want to feed if it means keeping you around! Your sweet face and optimism keep all of us going at times- so don't be gone too long...we love you and are your "support group" whenever you are ready for us again!!!
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January 21st, 2011, 07:22 AM
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Wow.... THAT SUCKS I totally understand needing to take a break for awhile and just processing the incredible hurt, anger, frustration, confusion, sadness, etc etc etc you must be feeling right now. We're here for you whenever you're ready to come back...

It might be hard to think about now, but this doesn't have to be the end of your adoption journey. And of course Aaliyah is rolling around in your belly to comfort you. I'm just so sorry and so mad for you... you have experienced a real dark side to human nature, and I just hope you can get through it with a teeny bit of hope and trust still left in your heart
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January 21st, 2011, 07:44 AM
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Oh Brandi, I am so very sorry. I'm so angry at this woman too. The nerve of her to put another family though this.

We are here for you and Ally and want you to take as much time as you need. Many hugs for both of you.
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January 21st, 2011, 08:30 AM
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I'm so sorry hun. I really have no words... people can be so cruel. ((((((((hugs)))))))))) were here if you need anything.
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January 21st, 2011, 08:44 AM
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Oh. My. God. I just don't understand some people. Its just heartless and cruel. T's and P's are with you.....we'll be here whenever you need us.
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January 21st, 2011, 09:09 AM
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Wow. I can't imagine what you are going through... definitely take care of that little girl in your belly! Please keep us updated... we already know that your are amazingly strong for what you have already been through and will make it through this, whatever is going on.
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January 21st, 2011, 10:06 AM
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Brandi, I am devastated for you. This is so incredibly unfair and you, of all people, do not deserve to be put through anymore hurt. I can't even begin to comprehend what you are feeling right now, but please know that we are always here. Don't ever feel like you can't be here for fear of bringing us down. I think it's pretty clear we all want to be here for you.

Take your time processing this, dealing with it and come back whenever you're ready.
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January 21st, 2011, 10:12 AM
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HUGS sweetie!!! You do whats best for you and Ally. We are all here for you. I hope you feel up to coming back soon but its most important that its when you're ready. Noone should ever have to endure all the pain and heartache you have. I'm praying for your and Ally's wellness, and the strength to get through this horrible time.
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January 21st, 2011, 03:15 PM
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Oh hun, I am so SO sorry I can't even begin to imagine what the two of you are going through right now

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January 21st, 2011, 04:15 PM
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I will be praying for you and your family! We are here for you if there is anything at all you need ... but yes, please take good care of Ally!!
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