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Seven years ago, after the birth of my 4th child, I had a tubal ligation performed. And now I've gotten a number of BFP's so Thursday I'm going to get an official serum test performed so that I can get a sonogram to see if the pregnancy is viable or not. For the last seven years I have boasted about how glad I was that I didn't have to worry about diapers or bottles or breastfeeding, or teething or any of the other stuff that goes along with having babies. However, I always had a feeling that sometime after the 5 year mark I would end up pregnant. And in the last 3 or 4 months my opinion on wanting another child suddenly flipped. I began thinking it wouldn't be so bad to have another baby now... I'll have 4 built in helpers and all but one are out of booster seats so the van would still work since 3 could sit in the back and two in the middle. I'm not sure what caused this sudden change or my thoughts but I'm really hoping this is a viable pregnancy and we won't be forced to terminate. Even my husband is excited! We are in a MUCH better position to care for a baby than we were 10 years ago when we started having kids. We are good financially, we have a good home and a good vehicle, our parenting skills are much better and hubby and I love each other more now than we did then. It would be absolutely wonderful to have another baby now. The only negative is that we do not have insurance, but somehow we'll make it work.
So please keep me in your thoughts and send positive energy or prayers our direction. Thanks!!!