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Okay so for Kadyn's birthday he wanted to see flying monkeys., We decided to take a trip to the zoo. I must say the kids and my husband enjoyed it thoroughly. I had fun but me and baby Rambo got our workout. Anyhow my brother decided that he wanted to spend the day with the four of us. So him and his significant other came to SC to visit the zoo. When they pulled up we were already and my brother asked me if i wanted a cigarette or something of the kind and i said "NO." politely of course. And he asked me how come and i don't know what came over me, i just blurted out "Because i am pregnant and i dont want it." The look on their faces was not support it was disappointment...It upset me to the point of tears. My brother walked away from the car as if i had just disgraced him or the family. his significant other rubbed shoulder as if it were him who had been victimized. She spoke in a stern very concerned manner," they make stuff that prevent that." What the heck???Did she even have a right? My husband looks at my brother and says "what?"And my brothers shrugs and shook his head no but we knew. There were many questions, how many weeks? have you been to the doctor? blah blah blah
Today was about my son and i made it about myself...But we had a good time acted like it never was mentioned. I told both of them that the news was not to be taken back to NC because unless my parents change their ways i can not share this with them. My joy was stripped from me today. All I could think about was who do they think they are? I have a man who loves me and provides and 2 amazing kids and then i have a wonderful brother who is my best friend but also my worst enemy sometime. But today he reminded of my dad and that was not who i wanted to spend my day with.
I am 19 weeks and I've struggled with the thought of "Is now a good time to have number 3?" And it was only yesterday that i said God would never give me more than i could handle, this pregnancy just like my others are blessings. I am truly happy for me, but besides my husband and best friend (1) i am the only other one saying that...