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June 30th, 2011, 06:34 AM
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My dh just got back from being in germany for work... and it was so hard with him gone... I am sure you remember my post about it. Well now he has to go back to Germany AND to London. I dont really know how I am supposed to do it again, and for longer. It was so awful, and with the way things have been going around here lately... I am just going to break down. I know it is not his fault... but I am mad at him, partly because he gets to travel, eat out at fancy dinners, go for drinks, get to sleep through the night.... while I am here... Makes me sad. He does not seem to even mind that he has to go... like almost he wants to get away from us again. That hurts.
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June 30th, 2011, 06:57 AM
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Awe, I'm so sorry he has to go again. I completely understand about feeling kinda resentful, I feel that way towards DH sometimes (especially when he complains he is tired...grrr) Before he goes, or when he gets back, is there anyway he could take the kids for a day and you could have a day to pamper yourself? It sounds like you need it!
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June 30th, 2011, 07:32 AM
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I just dont like that he does not seem affected by this all... he knows I am having a real hard time dealing with becoming a new sahm, with two kids, and I am having all these tests and injections in my back, and dealing with my ppd issues. I would just think that he would understand how much I truly need him right now, and he is oblivious to reality. He has the kids 45 mins last night while I was packing and the kids were both screaming... how can he not see that what I do is exhausting, and I have the right to be sad or disappointed that he has to leave me to do it all alone again. That one week was pure hell... what am I going to do for two weeks! (deep breath taken!) It is just scary and hard....
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June 30th, 2011, 08:11 AM
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Have you tried speaking your heart to him? Maybe he truly doesn't understand.
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