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When I had Kaylee, the nurse gave me some stool softeners because I was scared of my first PP BM. The first time was no problem so I stopped taking the SS, but the next few times hurt so I started taking them again.
I noticed after a couple weeks that whenever I didn't take the SS for a few days I would really have to strain to go and I would end up bleeding from my bum, and it was extremely painful.
Fast forward to now (6 1/2 weeks PP) and I bleed enough to make the toilet water red, and it hurts enough during and afterwards to make me cry! I FINALLY noticed on Thursday that the SS bottle says not to take them for more than a week or you will start needing them to go to the bathroom. So I stopped taking them...
Here we are Sunday and I haven't had a BM since.
I'm starting to worry that its going to KILL ME when I do finally go. Should I take more SS or just wait it out??
I mentioned the bleeding to a dr at the clinic on Thursday and he said "It will fade in time." *rolls eyes*
Any advice would be great, I don't know what to do!
I wrote about this before too. I did sane thing with softeners. Stopped and had to eat tons of fiber to go normally. I think I have what's called a fissure. I'm seeing dr tomorrow so I'll let you know what ge says. Kind of feels like poopong glass? It healed and then came back. I decided to try to spray myself down there with dermaplast they gave me in hospital for episiotomy . I spray it on bum before I go and it has changed my life. I'm not sure if I'm supposed to but I can go pain free therefore not making me strain or tense. If I get any good info tomorrow I'll pass it on.
Thanks so much! Yes, I'm not sure if its a fissure or a hemorroid but I am leaning more towards fissure as well! Pooping glass is %1000 it! Please do let me know what your doctor says, and I will try to find fibre-rich foods in the meantime!
Ah hello fellow bum bleeder. Mine feels like I'm pooping glass too lately and bleeds. I was going to try taking colace, but haven't gotten around to buying it. I think I'm gonna have to get some metamucil or something. I feel like an old lady saying that, but it's not fun having to poop. I actually kinda dread it.
Good luck on your quest to get a remedy to stop this bum bleeding.
hmmm that's strange. is there a laxative in your stool softener? typically if it is colace all it is is glycerine (soap) and it isnt a laxative just something to make it soft. it shouldnt cause you to actually go....
water and fruit. lots of fruit - with the skin.... apples, peaches, anything with skin - watermelon is great for water content. NO bananas - they are binders!
morning coffee or a little chocolate helps me!
Colleen ~ Wife to JD , Mom to Tori Rose and Caden Thomas
Just an FYI Fiber One bars oats and chocolate and oats and peanut butter are AMAZING!!! I have been snacking on them since I had kaylen b/c they taste great and they are something quick for me to grab and eat!!! Good Luck!!