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October 8th, 2011, 04:22 AM
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well .. i spent a month and a half after having my son dealing with pain because i was scared that going to the doctor i would just be told i would have to have surgery again ...

well its been to long and i saw a doc ... i still have sometimes daily pain from issues with my bottom ... seems other then hemorrhoids i have prolly a fissure and ill have to have surgery if its not improving by the 15th.... this is not something i wanted to hear.

no matter how much i dont wanna have surgery again ... i have dealt with this long enough trying to avoid it and .. i cant do it anymore ..

the other day i wailed for like ... 7-10 hours in horrific pain. it did sound like someone was being murdered ... im pretty sure that this wont get better in a few days seeing as its been so long ...

i already am upset at just the thought of being in a hospital away from my son ... i am scared of the recovery of yet another surgery ... if you count my episiotimy .. ive already had two operations in two months .. let alone am getting used to my new life as a mom ... i dont want three operations in two months ... this is just all to much ... i never thought when i was pregnant id be going thru anything like this ...

funny how i was so worried over the birth ... and compared to the after pain .. shoot .. that was nothin LOL ... either way just thought id let you gals know why i STILL am slacking on my posting and and am not on hardly ever .. its hard doing anything when im so exhausted and emotionally spent.

well im in hopes that surgery isnt needed ... but logic kinda keeps kickin me in the face making me realize ... if it wasnt needed this woulda gotten better by now

trying to keep my head up and keep it together as best i can ... these past months have been ... challenging
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October 8th, 2011, 06:45 AM
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:dothugs: I hope either way, you get some relief soon. I can't imagine how painful this must be.
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October 8th, 2011, 10:38 AM
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October 8th, 2011, 11:02 AM
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I hope you get this fixed for good
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October 8th, 2011, 02:26 PM
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((hugs)) I'm sorry you're still having issues with this and that you've been in so much pain!

But, talk to your hospital administrator about having the baby with you at the hospital. Tell them that you are brestfeeding and don't want to be separated from him. I did that and got special permission for Keelan to be with me in pre-op and in recovery. My surgery was outpatient, so it may be a little different, but I think they can make a special arrangement with you provided that you're never alone with the baby.
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October 9th, 2011, 03:32 AM
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we shall see what happens .. good idea about asking if i can bring baby for BFing.

i think on the 15th is when i have to call and see if its better or not and we see if i need to be operated on again ... sigh .. but ill just be glad when its over
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October 9th, 2011, 06:05 AM
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I'm sorry you are dealing with that I've been getting them since I had my first DD too, but usually if I up my fiber, I can get it to heal in a few days. My mom and sister both had surgery bfor thiers, though, and I think my mom told me it's a very quick procedure and she was home the same day.
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October 9th, 2011, 07:42 AM
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Hope you feel better soon.
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October 9th, 2011, 09:30 AM
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Poor thing...I hope you get some relief soon!
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October 9th, 2011, 11:04 AM
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Praying you get better and don't need surgery honey!!!! ((HUGS))
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October 9th, 2011, 11:16 AM
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October 9th, 2011, 12:43 PM
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