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August 2nd, 2012, 01:12 PM
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Hello laides, its been a long time since I've logged in. But there is a reason why. I have been going through alot and really need someone to talk to and I figure why not come here

I'm looking for advice only. Not to be judged please. I have been married to my husband for almost 2 years. He's physically and emotionally abusive. And I have finally decided to leave. My only fear is how do I protect my daughter from him. I was told I can get an order of protection but he has ten days to contest it. I'm scared he will. Does anyone know what I can do to keep her away from him? And does anyone live in AZ and know of any legal aids that will help low income parent in a domestic volience situation file for divorce?


My name is LaTisha - Soon to be Single Mother. I love myself and LO enough to get out of this abusive marriage!
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August 2nd, 2012, 02:50 PM
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Good for you for taking that step to leave! good luck to you and your daughter, I'd say document everything you can, pictures notes whatever you are able to remember. Here's the DV resources we have in maricopa county and a link at the bottom if you will be going outside of maricopa county:

Resources for Maricopa County

Maricopa County:
Avondale Police Dept. Victim Advocate: 623-478-3656

Adult Protective Services: 602-542-4446

Cassie's House (Phoenix): 602-936-7446

Catholic Social Services: 480-963-9532

Catholic Social Services (Phoenix): 602-997-6105

Connections Counseling Center (Surprise): 623-584-7800

Crisis Center Valley East (Mesa): 480-969-2308

Crisis Nursery (Phoenix): 602-273-7364

Chicanos Por La Causa De Colores: 602-269-1515

Chrysalis Shelter (Phoenix): 602-944-4999

Chrysalis Shelter (Scottsdale): 480-481-0402

Dignity House: 602-997-6105

DV STOP Program: 480-969-4024

Faith House Shelter (Glendale): 623-939-6031

Jewish Family Services (Scottsdale): 480-994-8477

Mesa Police Victim Service Unit: 480-644-4075

My Sisters' Place (Chandler): 602-263-8900

New Life Center (Goodyear): 623-932-4404

New Life Shelter (Litchfield Park): 623-935-9161

Pathways (Chandler): 480-821-1024

Salvation Army: 520-320-7556

Shelter Without Walls: 602-452-4640

Sojourner Center: 602-244-0089

Tempe Coalition Against DV: 602-279-2900

Victims Assistance Law Project (Tempe): 480-965-5290

Voices for Crime Victims: 602-207-2940


For other Domestic Violence resources in Arizona but outside of Maricopa County visit Arizona Domestic Violence Resources - AARDVARC.org and scroll down.
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August 2nd, 2012, 03:35 PM
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Good for you for taking that step! I can't offer legal advice, as I have no experience with that, but just wanted to say good luck! Welcome to this board and JM! Feel free to post here anytime.
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August 2nd, 2012, 07:05 PM
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You need to do what is best for you and your daughter. It's going to be hard but stay strong. Rachel gave you all kinds of info I hope it helps you!
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August 6th, 2012, 03:56 PM
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Please get out of the relationship, I have no idea what to do, but please get out!

Welcome to the board and feel free to post whenever!
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August 7th, 2012, 10:40 AM
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i agree with pp document everything, record if you can safely, take pics and send them to your mom or someone you trust and delete them be discret about it. Keep reminding yourself that you are better then any A** that thinks he is more of a man because he can hurt a women.
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August 8th, 2012, 06:32 AM
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Thank you ladies for all the kind words and resources, they have helped. I filed an order or protection and the next step is divorce. I will do whatever i have to to protect my LO.
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August 8th, 2012, 09:07 AM
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Stay strong. You are on the right track.
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August 8th, 2012, 10:25 PM
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Good for you, momma!!
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