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March 25th, 2013, 06:22 AM
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I would have sworn months ago that I would have had a baby by now. Tomorrow is still my scheduled c-section but since I went at 37 weeks 2 days with my 1st and then 38 weeks 3 days with my 2nd I thought this baby would have decided to come already.
I have no signs of anything. I did have a few BH throughout the night but that is still kind of normal for me.
I have no bloody show, no loss of my mucus plug, no real contractions really.
I'm actually thinking my dates could be off because I didn't have a period to go by. Due to bf and being on the mini pill.
They say that she is due on March 30th but who knows.

I'm actually debating about calling the ob office and seeing about delaying the surgery tmr. If I do that though I will only have help for 2 weeks with Lina instead of 3 (if new baby comes in a few days as opposed to tmr) due to my oldest's school schedule and how much time my SO can take off.

I'm so torn on what to do. Oh and I have no feelings that this baby is coming any time soon. With my other 2 I have premonitions and I was right both times. This time I got nothing, other then the feeling that possibly she's not ready. Yet the absolute latest I think I could have gotten pregnant was by July 9th because I got my positive on July 20th. SO was saying I was pregnant the beginning of July but I told him he was nuts and that wasn't possible.
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March 25th, 2013, 07:15 AM
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Hmm. . . I feel like if you feel that way, maybe call and talk to someone there about it!? I dunno. . .I would feel the same way though.
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March 25th, 2013, 10:34 AM
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Have you had ultrasounds to determine the gestational age? If not it's very possible you still have a while to go. How did the doctor come up with 3/30 as the due date without a LMP? Especially since this is your third....I would think you'd be feeling some pressure down there or something.
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March 25th, 2013, 11:20 AM
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Have you had ultrasounds to determine the gestational age? If not it's very possible you still have a while to go. How did the doctor come up with 3/30 as the due date without a LMP? Especially since this is your third....I would think you'd be feeling some pressure down there or something.
I had a couple ultrasounds in the beginning that gave me the 30th date.

but just to update-

My insurance company is denying pre-authorization. Ins is saying that it's not medically necessary and that I'm not full term yet.
I just found out this about 2 hours ago.
I will not be having a baby tomorrow due to this issue.

It's good and bad. I'm all worked up emotionally now and upset but happy that it's being delayed at least.

I just have so many mixed feelings.
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March 25th, 2013, 12:00 PM
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Aww....well I hope you get to the bottom of the insurance issue.

Is her name definitely Aria?
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March 25th, 2013, 01:29 PM
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Aww well I am glad you got it delayed so you don't have to make a decision about that just yet, but I hope everything works out ok wit insurance too!
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March 25th, 2013, 05:20 PM
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Well to update again, surgery is a go for tomorrow. Just due to everything going on with SO"s work, my brother leaving town Wed, work FMLA started etc we are going to go ahead and due the section tmr.
I'm a little upset about it but at the same time I've never gestated a baby this long before.
Ins finally approved everything I guess, I got phone calls from obgyn office and the hospital confirming that everything is a go.
So I get to meet my new baby tomorrow no matter what.

Her name will not be Aria.
I will post when she is born though and what her name is.
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March 25th, 2013, 06:52 PM
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Well at least you know what the plan is now. Good luck tomorrow! Can't wait to hear how it went/see pics
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March 25th, 2013, 07:01 PM
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Good luck! Can't wait to hear about your beautiful new baby!!
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March 25th, 2013, 07:23 PM
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Good luck! I hope everything goes well and you two are healthy!
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March 25th, 2013, 07:32 PM
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Good luck! Wish you a safe, smooth and speedy delivery tomorrow. Can't wait to see her and find out what name you have chosen!
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March 26th, 2013, 12:05 AM
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I know you already scheduled it but, go with your gut. Mama's intuition is rarely wrong! If you feel she might not be ready you can still delay it! Did you have a previous c/s?
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March 27th, 2013, 07:16 AM
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hope everything is going well!
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