I don't have UCs or lotus birth, but I am a homebirther. Here are some things I keep on hand.
- Several black, red or brown towels
- Chux pads (I believe you can get them at most stores near adult diapers)
- Large waterproof pad - I use a Neat Sheet and shower liner, but since I have waterbirths don't really need either
- Soft paper towels - these are good for putting oil on and holding against the perineum while pushing. They also make great diaper liners for the first meconium poops and if you put oil on them and baby's butt it is much easier to clean the poop up
- Bottle of oil - almond, safflower, coconut, olive.. This is for softening the perineum and helping to prevent tears
- Thick pads for you, for the bleeding afterwards. Adult diapers work well for this, especially the first night
- Fluids such as juice, water or electrolyte drinks and snacks
- I don't know the ins and outs of lotus birth, but I know you will need dry herbs and salt and a cloth bag of some sort to keep it in. The herbs and salt are for drying it out and preventing odors
- Baby scale and tap measure
- Peri irrigation bottle to clean the perineum after birth in case of tears
- A doppler or fetoscope to monitor the heart rate during labor
I will add more if I think of it! Hth!