[MommyKent910]

Just have to get this out somwhere...


All day I have been a crazy mess. Ive been mad at DH for no good reason and then he went to leave for work and I LOST it. Starting balling hyseticially and now he has been gone for over an hour and I am still upset. He keeps asking what is wrong but I dont have an answer. Im just upset for no good reason. Anyways, I had to tell someone because I feel like Im losing my mind. I honestly think that this gender thing is getting in my head. I would honestly be happy either way but this angle of the dangle and people going back and forth on whether it *looks* like a girl or boy is making me so upset. I talk myself out of my little girl and then talk myself out of a boy, non stop all day. I know I sound crazy now, so I need to get out of this house but you ladies are the only people who would understand. Thanks for letting me get it out.

[pinkpopsicles]

You're not losing your mind. And the gender thing IS a big deal. Don't you just wish you could wear a t-shirt that said "I don't know the gender yet and don't really want to guess anymore so please don't ask me."
Sounds like you need a night out. Retail therapy? Any good book stores in your area?
{{Hugs}}

[stephanieaehenley]

i know how you are feeling , i have been going over the gender in my head everday and it gets overwhelming, your not losing your mind your pregnant and you hormones are going wild... we have all been there.. try to do something nice for yourself !

[Excited_mommy]

Aw I had a crazy morning like that where I was just upset for no good reason and it showed big time.. I finally just had to say to my DH "babe I'm in a bad mood and I'm sorry... Give me a few minutes to get over it". Sounds stupid but I wanted him to know I wasn't mad at him I was just..moody. And I agree with the retail therapy also, buy something or do something for yourself to get your mind off of gender stuff. I hope your day gets better.

[mamatomany]

I hear you about the gender thing! People are always saying they hope it's a girl or thinking I'm desperate for a girl, but honestly I would be so happy for another boy. I just want to find out so I can stop having the conversation .

[MommyKent910]

Originally Posted by mamatomany

I hear you about the gender thing! People are always saying they hope it's a girl or thinking I'm desperate for a girl, but honestly I would be so happy for another boy. I just want to find out so I can stop having the conversation .

I couldnt have said it better!!

[chickadee]

I'm sorry you're feeling so upset, and you don't sound crazy. *hugs* I have definitely had some moments where I'm just upset, period, and there is nothing my husband can do or so that is right to "fix" it. I hope you'll be feeling better about it all soon.

[Glowlilac]

Sorry you're having one of "those" days ... I've definitely had my share of them lately too. *hugs*

[Ravado]

I hate days like that. I think the worst feeling is when you know you are riding the crazy train but you just can't get off. I hope tomorrow is better for you.

[kikismith]

I feel the same exact way, talking myself into one gender then the other. That's another reason I can't wait for the gender scan. Hugs!

[Mom2twolittlemen]

I'm sorry Mama . Those days are tough. I'm way more emotional and short fused when pg so I understand.

[gratzie]

Originally Posted by Ravado

I think the worst feeling is when you know you are riding the crazy train but you just can't get off.

Ahahahahahahaha! YES I have days like this and I just feel awful for DH then but I can't stop myself!

I had a dream 2 nights ago that we went in for the anatomy scan and I saw boy parts right away. I started BAWLING in my dream and I was just soooo depressed. I woke up very upset because what if that whole scenario happens in real life?!? I completely understand your feelings on this!

[martilynne]

[artisticmind]

Oh the conversation doesn't stop when you find out gender though "so are you going to try one more time for that boy/girl" etc. People can be well, a-holes to say the least.

I've had one of those days too. Been pissed at hubby since this afternoon but i know my reason. Tired of being the only one picking up after our son. Hubby's great at starting laundry (when he has no underwear) or doing dishes (when he needs tupperware to pack his lunch) and he does help on sunday mornings when we do a deep clean of the kitchen and sweep and mop the hall, kitchen, and utility room. But when it comes to stuff Riley gets out....it will sit there for DAYS until i finally get tired of looking at it and do something about it. I told him last week we needed to clean Riley's room because he destroyed it. We never got to it. I told him 2 or 3 days ago that we were cleaning it that night. Didn't happen and i wasn't doing it by myself. Finally today i was tired of looking at it and started. Then he asked why i was pissy while picking up Riley's room. I went off and told him that i was tired of being the only one who picks up after Riley. "so you're saying i don't do anything?" no i'm not saying that. i'm saying you don't help pick up after Riley. You leave stuff where it is and walk by it and it sits there. "so leave it there." I do. and then i end up picking it up days later when it should have been picked up before. i'm tired of doing it, i shouldn't have to ask, nag, or have to b**** to get him to help pick up after his own child so i quit picking up Riley's room and walked off and hid in the basement for a good hour and a half. When i came back up Riley's room was clean.

[sarah*]

i hate days like that, where your hormones are raging, hope you are feelign better today