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Well, I had an appointment for 6 at their office about 10 miles from my house. Then I learned they have an office within a mile or two of my house, so I called right after SD left & requested to change to that office since I didn't want him trying to come to my dr office or appts. I thought I had changed it, and she did tell me... But I couldn't remember if it was the same time, or a little later.... So I called this morning to confirm and she says they have me at 6pm at the other office 10 miles away. I'm like Hmm... I thought I changed this... maybe I dreamt it at this point... The girl laughed & says "Let me see what I can do" so changes it to 7:20pm tonight (AZ time) which actually works better for me.
Honestly I don't even wanna go. I just feel detached from this pregnancy. I feel inconvenienced by it now. It's more of a thing I have to deal with than anything. I don't know. Just feel blue. (or purple according to that emote I guess)....
Good luck with your appointment. Your feelings are your feelings, take time to think, cry, be mad, be happy- what ever you need to! No one can tell you how you should feel and with all those hormones running around it's easy to get overwhelmed.
My thoughts are with you - PM me anytime if you need to talk.
I agree with the other ladies, right now sooo much has been going on for you. A real emotional rollercoaster! After some time passes, things will change. As Annie says, "the sun will come out tomorrow!" Thinking of you. I hope you get a good view of the baby and get some good pics.
Baby's heart rate was 166 bpm. No ultrasound of course. I've lost a few lbs, so trying something different that'll hopefully help me sleep too at night. Other than that, normal 12 week appt & I go backin a month.
I just don't feel anything. If it weren't for the plaguing nausea & rounding stomach that seems to protrude more each day I could probably trick myself into forgetting I was pregnant. On top of it I feel guilty for being less than thrilled when so many women in this DDC tried for such a long time to even get pregnant. I don't know. It's hard to post here anymore. I just feel guilty.
I agree, we're here to support each other. Pregnancy doesn't al of the sudden mean you float on clouds and it rains skittles. We are hormonal, constipated, have morning sickness, achy, bloated, sore, gassy and we deserve to have cycles of emotions. It's PART of pregnancy.
I was realizing the other day, that though I'm ELATED to be pregnant, I really feel disconnected at this point. I think it's because I'm not far enough along to have some of the benefits (knowing the gender, constant movement, etc). I think it will just take time.
Plus you have been through a LOT since finding out you were pregnant. A lot of transition and a lot of possibilities....
Awww....I really wish that I could give you a big hug right now! We All support you and want the best for you and your LO please find support where u can even if it is from random strangers. Please don't hesitate to post anything you are feeling here! Loves and hugs all around!!!