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September 16th, 2009, 11:52 AM
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How much patience do you have?
To what extend do you expect that a husband should/ would stand up for you??
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September 16th, 2009, 01:43 PM
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I have alot of patience, except now that im PG when I am hungry or tired...

I feel like a DH should have your back and stand up for you against everyone even family, unless you are totally wrong, if he breaks that unit that you two are supposed to be than what is a marriage based on, I dunno I feel strongly about that b/c my XDH used to throw me under the bus all the time....and I think that one of the best things a wife/husband can be is loyal and that shows no loyalty...
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September 16th, 2009, 02:10 PM
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How much patience do you have? Not much! More some days than others, but I mostly ran out of patience ages ago.

To what extend do you expect that a husband should/ would stand up for you?? Maybe I'm old fashioned in this regard, but I think a husband and wife should be willing to go to the ends of the earth for each other. That includes standing up for each other in bad situations. DH and I stand up for each other no matter who we're facing and I can't think of a situation where that wouldn't be the case. We may not always agree, but on all the big stuff we do and that makes it easier.
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September 17th, 2009, 01:46 PM
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Sorry ladies this extended from an issue with DH...
So as you could see my patience had run out however I got them back now.

I would agree we should be acting as 1 and have each others backs... however I felt like shaking my enemies hand and smiling is a stab in the back to me. Now I have turned it over into Allah's hands and am praying for calmness and resolution to the issues that arose last week. As for DH and I I think I need to learn he is a far right or far left person... He is either violent (in defense of me, never towards me ) or talks and walks off friendly hate it!! Grrrrrrrr Egypt for making him so "LETS WORK IT OUT" GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!
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September 23rd, 2009, 01:35 AM
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On the one hand I don't FEEL patient but I think from how I've done things that in fact I am a patient person. I will keep trying and working at something or hoping for a long time, too long sometimes. I don't necessarily feel happy during that time though but if it were easy I guess I wouldn't be needing the patience! Kinda like there is no courage if you're not scared.
I do think a husband or wife should stand up for the other one. They should support the good things and tolerate the bad ones. I'm not saying support the other one in something negative they are doing but don't try to undermine.
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