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I've had two co-workers ask in the last two days when I'm going to have another baby. I'm dying to tell them that it will be around May 2 but I'm trying to keep it a secret for awhile longer. I would get asked every now and then before I was pregnant but now I have a complex like I'm showing or people are noticing a difference or asking for a reason. I am a terrible secret keeper and this is a big one to try to keep in. I don't know how I made it 14 weeks without telling anyone but my mom, dad, brother and sister last time. I'll never make it to the end of October at this rate!
I am dying too! Because of my miscarriages we're being extra cautious, but have already told my best friend, and both sets of parents - we need the prayers! I also would have gone to them for support in the event of another miscarriage so no point in waiting to tell the people super close to me!
I am def waiting to tell people but have let our parents and close friends in on the secret. They knew we were going through fertility treatments so they kind of know when I should know so you can't really get around telling them. I will probably wait til 8 weeks to tell the rest of the family and 12 weeks to do the whole fbook announce.
My mom's birthday is tomorrow so we'll probably sign her card from DD as DD and her little brother or sister due in May. I'm banking on her being able to keep the secret. It makes me feel better that someone else will be suffering in silence with me!!
Ideally, I would wait until the heartbeat is confirmed on an ultrasound but I'm going to get busted this weekend when I'm not drinking and I figured I should tell my mom first.