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September 16th, 2012, 08:32 AM
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I was an animal while we were TTC and now I don't want to be touched...lol...what's up with that?! My whole body feels so sensitive I just want to sleep.
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September 16th, 2012, 08:37 AM
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My SO and I were just discussing this! Never laughed so hard as when he says if i touch you, you get mad, if i dont touch you, you get mad. I heard him tell his buddy, dude i just tread softly and wait for the bomb to drop. I feel so bad but there isnt really alot i can do, my emotions are all over the place. Good luck !
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September 16th, 2012, 08:51 AM
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I don't want to be touched!
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September 16th, 2012, 09:02 AM
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My SO and I were just discussing this! Never laughed so hard as when he says if i touch you, you get mad, if i dont touch you, you get mad. I heard him tell his buddy, dude i just tread softly and wait for the bomb to drop. I feel so bad but there isnt really alot i can do, my emotions are all over the place. Good luck !
haha I bet our guys would get along. I don't want him to touch me in any sort of sexual way, but if he doesn't hold me to go to sleep I get ticked. He has learned if he doesn't get it during the day while I'm awake, he better not even consider trying it when I'm ready to go to bed. I lay down because I want to sleep, not be a sex toy. lol
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September 16th, 2012, 09:08 AM
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I am sorry to say we have not BD'd since the morning of August 28th! This post made me realize just how long it has been. I have no desire to, and as silly as this is, I am afraid to after last months MC. DH and I work so hard on the farm and he has a stressful job (homocide detective), that by the time bed time comes around we just pass out, lol
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September 16th, 2012, 09:24 AM
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Since nausea started there is no chance in hell of doing the deed...
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September 16th, 2012, 09:28 AM
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with the nausea we went 6 days, but I do my best to give in if I can at all possibly can. They have needs and I want to meet his.... He understands when I say no as of recently, of course, but we never go more than a week....
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September 16th, 2012, 09:39 AM
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It's not really been too much different since we found out... still BD 2-3/week. I am a lot more sensitive down there though, not the good kinda either. The goods feel like on fire. But I still want it, lol!
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September 16th, 2012, 09:44 AM
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I forgot that was how I had even gotten this way it's been so long... I made him get out of the bed this morning after my almost 9 year old woke us up at before dawn and sleep on the couch because I couldn't stand his moving around. It was making me sick. I just apologized to him and told him it's not just me so I hope he doesn't hate me now.
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September 16th, 2012, 09:44 AM
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Our sex life has once again dipped in the first trimester thanks to fatigue (and a toddler, this time). If there is an opportunity without feeling ill, exhausted, or a toddler in the way I don't let it pass us by. Since this is his second time around, he knows he just has to be patient till the hormones kick in later.
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September 16th, 2012, 10:07 AM
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we've done it once since we found out on august 30. I'm nervous to do it and I just don't feel like it.
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September 16th, 2012, 10:11 AM
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My desire has definitely dropped off. At night I am so tired and usually DH likes to wait for bedtime to DTD, so he catches me when I'm exhausted. Plus yeah with feeling sick the drive is really diminished.
He's been gone for almost 2 weeks now so I am looking forward to some intimacy when he gets back. But I know I'm not as into it as I was before. Here's hoping the second trimester is better!
Another part of the lower drive is that I had to cut my antidepressant in half, because it was giving me heart palpitations. And before that it had been helping my sex drive out. So now I'm just limping along, lol.
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September 16th, 2012, 10:53 AM
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On pelvic rest so we can;t but even if we could I don't want to be touched at all. No desire to do it.
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September 16th, 2012, 11:08 AM
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I'm too busy messing with suppositories to BD.
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September 16th, 2012, 11:08 AM
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Since nausea started there is no chance in hell of doing the deed...
Haha, same here. Leave me alone!
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September 16th, 2012, 11:49 AM
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I was logging when we bd before to keep trackish in a phone app before I got pregnant. We averaged about 2-3 times a week but have dropped lately but mostly due to lifr just being crazy. We don't go more than a week normally. Maybe I will still keep track to make sure I don't neglect him too much just in case
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September 16th, 2012, 12:20 PM
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I think thing will change after the first trimester, but for now I just don't feel good and do not want to be touched lol.

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September 16th, 2012, 01:40 PM
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i guess i'm in the minority . . . i personally just can't get enough Chris even told me yesterday that i was beating the crap out of him and i was like we only did it like once then i thought about it and i was like oh no i guess we did it like 5 times it's funny though cause i don't want to be touched unless i feel like dtd
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September 16th, 2012, 02:34 PM
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LOL, good to know I'm not the only one (in the non-BDing category). We've only DTD once since we got the BFP.. I'm not sure if it's because we were on a schedule before or what. But I just have ZERO libido right now.

And the one time we did do it... it was painful for me So that was sucky.
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September 16th, 2012, 02:45 PM
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I'm also glad Im not the only want who doesnt want to bd i do feel sorry for my SO since we havent dtd since I found out I was pregnant between the awful ms, fatigue and I'm honestly just scared of anything happening to the baby he hadn't got a cats chance of getting it but now he's started complaining so I don't know what to do x
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