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September 30th, 2012, 02:58 PM
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I did a lot of searching on the internet for some hope from people that didn't have doubling, or even 60% increase with their beta numbers and saw so many posts that I was trying to hold out hope. Figured there was no spotting, I still had symptoms and I was just going to tell myself I am still pregnant and a rise is better than nothing....no point in freaking out until Tuesday when I get the next results.....that was until now...

We were on our way home from our son's baseball game and you know that feeling you get when all of a sudden you just feel preganant before you test and find out you actually are....well, the opposite happened....it was like all of a sudden someone turned off my pregnancy switch and I just knew I wasn't pregnant anymore and just lost the baby along with any pregnancy symptom.....then we get home an hour ago and I had brown cm when wiping and it is now turning to pink!

Why does this keep happening? Why can't I make it past the 6 week mark lately? How do I go from having 2 pregnancies in a row and have healthy babies to now 3 miscarriages in a row?!

Sorry....just need to get my rant off my chest. Hubby ran out to drop off our son at a friends house and I don't know what to tell him....I just pray this doesn't make him not want to try anymore...he took the last one pretty hard and tried to stay so strong for me after the D&C....ugh!!!
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September 30th, 2012, 03:03 PM
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I am so very sorry. I think the not knowing what is going on is really the worst part of any miscarriage. If I was in your shoes, I would go get the blood work done in the morning just to see what the numbers are doing. I would also ask the doctor to see what testing they can do now that you have had two and maybe three miscarriages in a row. I'm so very sorry. I will be thinking about you.
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September 30th, 2012, 03:14 PM
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I am so sorry. I agree with markswife. I would see what the tests say. Not knowing is the worst part. T&P being sent your way <3
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September 30th, 2012, 03:27 PM
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I think you really need to do the blood work, i know you dont want to because it may be the proof that your going through your mc but then again it could show that it coulld be a viable pregnancy and that its just some minor bleeding !
Prayers and lots of sticky bean dust!
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September 30th, 2012, 03:51 PM
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I am so so sorry you are going through this. I hope you get some answers. Lots of hugs!!
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September 30th, 2012, 03:59 PM
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I agree, if it were me, I'd get the blood work tomorrow. If this does turn out to be m/c, maybe your doctor would help next time in early m/c prevention if it's something they can do, like supplements, or stitches, or whatever. Thoughts and prayers of strength and health for you and your family.
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September 30th, 2012, 06:05 PM
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I'm so sorry. I am in the same boat - lost the baby yesterday. Dr wants to test my hormones after my next period on CD3.

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September 30th, 2012, 06:55 PM
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Thanks girls!! I will still go to confirm. No more spotting and I can't tell if my boobs are the same....at times they are still sore and heavy and at times they aren't. I am just not having fun on this roller coaster and the next 2 days will feel like forever!!

Mindy, I am SO sorry for your loss!!!! It is such a terrible thing to go through and I pray your next pregnancy will result in a beautiful, healthy baby!!!
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TTC #3 Would love a princess to go with our princes!!
3/2010 - 4w 6d - Chemical
7/30/10 - 8 wks but baby stopped growing at 6wks-D&C.
10/5/12 - 6w 2d.......on to some testing to see why this is happening!
3rd cycle with the RE. 5mg Femera, HCG trigger shot 3/9. TI. Progesterone. BFP 3/26!! EDD 12/2/13!!
1st beta - 3/27, 16dpo 4w2d - 430
2nd beta - 3/29, 18dpo 4w 4d - 650 - getting nervous this isn't looking good!
3rd beta - 4/1, 21dpo 5w - 1302
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September 30th, 2012, 07:04 PM
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Awe i'm sorry hun thats hard I'm sure you know by now that they check your hcg levels as your miscarrying anyway and maybe you can have them check you for clotting disorders or something. I will be praying for you and your family!
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September 30th, 2012, 09:24 PM
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I've lost 4. 3 of them were because my own body kills them off. Using a blood thinner is what I need to maintain a pregnancy. I would get you blood checked right away to make sure there isn't something happening that can be controlled.
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October 1st, 2012, 04:57 AM
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I'm sorry sweetpea. Still get the testing done, and see if your insurance will cover any testing to figure out why this keeps happening.

You and your family are in my prayers. Keep us posted.
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October 1st, 2012, 07:02 AM
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Good luck today.
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October 1st, 2012, 07:31 AM
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Anxiously awaiting your update. Im so sorry.
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October 1st, 2012, 07:41 AM
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Thanks girls!! I just made my appointment and will go at 1:10pm. No more spotting, it was really light yesterday and honestly, it could have been from going to the bathroom so much...every trickle I had to go I went just to keep wiping and checking....there hasn't been a drop since.

This will be the longest 24 hours.....
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3/2010 - 4w 6d - Chemical
7/30/10 - 8 wks but baby stopped growing at 6wks-D&C.
10/5/12 - 6w 2d.......on to some testing to see why this is happening!
3rd cycle with the RE. 5mg Femera, HCG trigger shot 3/9. TI. Progesterone. BFP 3/26!! EDD 12/2/13!!
1st beta - 3/27, 16dpo 4w2d - 430
2nd beta - 3/29, 18dpo 4w 4d - 650 - getting nervous this isn't looking good!
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October 1st, 2012, 07:54 AM
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Good luck! Keep us posted.
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October 1st, 2012, 08:33 AM
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I hope you get the answers you're hoping for (((positive vibes)))
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October 1st, 2012, 08:38 AM
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Thinking about you today.
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October 1st, 2012, 01:19 PM
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Thinking and praying for you.
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Praying for you and your little bean <3

Keep us posted!
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