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Since pregnancy, my dreams have become very vivid. Some very real and rather scary.
I had a dream last night. Which didnt seem like a dream.
I grew up close to my mothers father.i never knew my fathers dad so I knew at a young age that my mothers dad would be a huge factor in my life. Which he was. Oh how I loved him. I cherished him. I imagined my entire life with him in it. Never realizing that there was "death"
As I grew, he was there. Till a month after my 17th birthday. I lost him to early. Unexpected and with tons of grief.
Its been 5 years and all my major accomplishments since then I felt his love. With my first pregnancy, I do wish my children had a chance to know him. I havent dreamnt of him for years. Not till last night. They say that ppl visit you as you sleep. Its their way of checking in on you.
Well I know I was between sleeping and waking up when my grandpa appeared in my dream. Looking calm and smiling. It was a shock and I wasnt sure if it was real or not so I approached him slowly. The closer I got the more I wanted to charge at him and hug him. As soon as I touched his hand I embraced him. A full on hug!! I enjoyed every moment of it. As I hugged him a man stood by the door... Kinda stood in the shadows and softly said "its time, we have to go"
I looked at my grandpas face and trying to figure out why he had to leave, my eyes filled with tears and I cried!
I kept looking at his face, trying to absorb every detail I could, for some odd reason knowing that this hug would be the last hug for awhile and I would be saying good bye again.. It wasnt cries of small tears, it was full on.
While this man patiently waited for my grandpa.
Whoever that man was, I thank him. He brought my grandpa from the spirit world into mine.
He knew I needed that, and he knew I needed my grandpa through this pregnancy.
But my grandpa didnt say a word. In my cultural they say if a person who has passed on enters your dream and they dont speak at all, they really are the angel and not just a dream.
As much as the dream hurt and a day full of tears, I am beyond happy to be blessed to experince a hug worth more then life.
Anyone have dreams like this within their pregnancies?
I had a dream a week or so ago when my grandma visited me. I always remember how soft her hands were, and how comforting it felt when she patted me on my knee. When I was dreaming about her the other night, the dream felt so real, I could almost feel the warmth of her hand on my knee when I woke up. I know she is around me, even more so now that I am pregnant. I am positive your grandpa is around you.
I would be inclined to believe that he really did visit you. That's such a special dream! I know that I have had dreams that have really helped me along. This pregnancy after I found out it was a boy, I was SO super disappointed. For many reasons, I wanted a girl. A few days into the disappointment I had dream about this baby boy being born, holding him, nursing him, and just his sweet little face. That totally changed my disposition and from that night forward I have felt such a connection to him. I am so grateful for that dream. I'm glad you got to hug your grandpa!