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March 11th, 2013, 04:08 PM
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Hi ladies. My aunt, was always told she could have children,however a few years ago , she got the gastric surgery and got pregnant.


She is 46 and had been cautiously awaiting the arrival of Identical twin boys. The were due the last week of February or 1st few days of march. She went over her due date and my mom called me this morning saying today was the day. I called her after work to see if they were here yet and she was crying. She said my aunt lost both babies. We don't know the cause yet.

I feel so awful for her and for my baby cousins. I was looking forward to my kids gettin to be close in age with hers. (My mom had us as a teen so my aunts and uncles helped raise us.) my aunt only has her husband by her side because she lives out of state. My mom and aunts an uncles were planning to fly out once they arrived.....

Please if you can think of or send some prayers up for my grieving aunt I'd appreciate it.
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March 11th, 2013, 04:23 PM
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Praying for you all.
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March 11th, 2013, 04:29 PM
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Devastating!
I'm so sorry for your family's loss..
Many many prayers for you all!!
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March 11th, 2013, 04:32 PM
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OMG how awful! I can't imagine losing both like that. My heart goes out to her and her husband!
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March 11th, 2013, 04:37 PM
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That's awful. I'm so so sorry. My thoughts are with your family.
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March 11th, 2013, 04:50 PM
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Oh my word! That's so horrible. It's stories like that that keep me worried until baby actually comes out ok. So incredibly sorry for your aunt and family. Prayers going out to you all.
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March 11th, 2013, 05:34 PM
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Oh my. I'll be praying for your entire family.
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March 11th, 2013, 06:01 PM
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I'm so sorry I will definitely be praying for her. What an awful situation.
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March 11th, 2013, 06:13 PM
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My I'm so sorry. If you don't mind me asking, was she overdue? Wow, to carry them for so long....how sad. I'll be thinking of her/ and your family. I think it's every expectant Mama's worse nightmare. Hugs.
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March 11th, 2013, 06:19 PM
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Oh how awful! So sorry for your family's loss. Sending them some prayers.
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March 11th, 2013, 06:33 PM
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I am so sorry. I can't even imagine how awful this is for her and all of your family. Praying to God for her comfort, my heart breaks for her I can't even imagine. Even now with how close we are getting, I see sweet babies and my heart melts and I want my baby so bad. To make it so close with all your dreams and expectations to all of a sudden be gone, I just don't even know how it's possible to ever feel the same again
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March 11th, 2013, 06:53 PM
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Heart broken for her, sending my prayers and thoughts along.
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March 11th, 2013, 07:27 PM
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I'm so sorry. What a terrible loss for her and her husband. I would be so heartbroken.
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March 11th, 2013, 08:42 PM
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The other ladies have expressed the same thoughts as me. So sorry for this loss.
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March 11th, 2013, 08:45 PM
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March 11th, 2013, 10:10 PM
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Thanks ladies. This is so awful. My mom is driving up halfway tonight and should be with her tomorrow and to help make arrangements what ever they may be. She was over due but I don't know by how much. My other aunt told us she told her she was expecting in May 2012.... so the babies should have been here by the end of february. She didn't have the best medical care..... I guess today she started having contractions and when they put the monitors on her there were no heartbeats. They sent her home and she will have them out tomorrow. My uncle says the docs are not telling them anything and I think they will have an autopsy in the coming days. My heart is so broken for them and for my baby cousins. They recently bought a home out of state where they've been living the last several years and had everything all prepared. I can't understand how or why these things happen.

I feel really really awful expecting shortly after her. It's not that I'm afraid of this happening, because I know every woman fears this, but I just feel it's not fair and don't want to hurt her in any way if you understand what I mean. I'm asking my mom to cancel my shower since it's in 3 weeks. I'd rather any money go toward everything for them. Like I said my aunt was very very close and helped raise me growing up. She's so loving and so there for her all her nieces and nephews (5 of us) and my DD too.
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March 11th, 2013, 10:59 PM
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Wow, so incredibly sad. That's really sweet of you to cancel your shower. I know I would feel guilty too for having a healthy baby so soon after her loss. It's not your fault, but you don't want to pain her any further---I get that. I hope they can at least find out more about what happened to her babies. ((hugs))
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March 12th, 2013, 05:05 AM
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I am so sorry! That is just so horrible! I feel so bad for your aunt that must be so devastating. she has been through so much and came so far! It's not fair. I can totally understand how you would feel, its just so aweful! Thoughts and prayers for her.
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March 12th, 2013, 05:14 AM
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This is just horrible. My heart breaks for your Aunt and family. I can't even begin to imagine the pain that she must be feeling. Sending thoughts and prayers your way.
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March 12th, 2013, 06:17 AM
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I'm sorry again. I think it is so amazing of you to cancel your shower and focus the family attention/finances on them. Very thoughtful. I hope they find out what happened, just to know.

Prayers for your family. I know you will be a great support.
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