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January 9th, 2010, 12:49 AM
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I wonder why both my babies died at 8 weeks? would this be considered random? I cant help but think something is up..I mean i could understand if baby left us at different times..but both at 8 weeks? ultrasound place said i could still have healthy children in the future but little did he know that this is my second loss..im confused,hurt and empty..If i dont naturally miscarry by wednesday we'll be talking about other ways..I dont know anymore..I dont no if i wanna try again knowing I could just suffer another loss
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January 9th, 2010, 04:20 AM
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Oh sweetie I really don't know what to think this is not fair I would definitely talk to somebody about it. I mean it could very well just be completely unrelated but maybe just maybe its something else? IDK I'm so sorry
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January 9th, 2010, 04:24 AM
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Hugs Sandy. It's hard to know why these things happen. I think it is important that you take some time to heal emotionally. Pregnancy loss is very tramatic and isn't understood by alot of people. The ultrasound place is exactly right though, you still could have healthy children in the future. Many of us here on MOG have had a loss and then went on to have healthy pg and children, even after multiple losses. Just take some time to greive and to heal. Do NOT beat yourself up over this, and (I believe) when the time is right, God will bless you with another child again.
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January 9th, 2010, 07:26 AM
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January 9th, 2010, 08:14 AM
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I'm with Melanie...take some time for healing, but have faith. It will happen again, and everything will go wonderfully, when the time is right. I had a loss between my two girls...but Milly was a perfect pregnancy. Big hugs for you...I'm so sorry you're going through this again.

I don't know if it's something you'd be interested in, but there's a pregnancy loss Bible study starting on Monday on the Christian Parenting board. I'm signed up and looking forward to it. I think there's going to be a lot of healing because of it.
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January 9th, 2010, 12:25 PM
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I am sorry you are dealing with this. Have you talked to your doctor about going on progestrone shots? This could help...
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January 9th, 2010, 04:29 PM
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I'm so sorry Sandy *hugs* I don't know what to say. It's very possibly just a coincidence that it happened that way. I'm sure you'll be given another very healthy baby when the timing is right. Just take the time to heal, both emotionally and physically.
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January 10th, 2010, 05:20 AM
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:dothugs: i am so sorry for your loss
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January 10th, 2010, 06:37 AM
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I'm so sorry. I'd ask your OB a lot of questions and make them do some testing.
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January 15th, 2010, 08:12 PM
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I've had 5 miscarriages. It doesn't get easier. But, you do heal. It could be low progesterone, could be something like what I have (MTHFR), could be autoimmune type thing, or something genetic with the babies, or it could just be something "random". I hope you get answers.
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