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January 13th, 2010, 03:26 AM
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After friday i realized that losing a baby will either make or break a relationship...I feel like once again ours is going downhill. Im either moody or feel like he hates being around.I know he cares and he is hurting just as much as me.I really dont no whats in it for us this year..Like i really been thinking about holding off on TTC for awhile 1.to give my heart some time to heal and 2.hopefully get everything fixed with my body (thyroid,lose some weight,dentist etc)..I wont lie and say those are the only reasons but id like to

move out to a better place (hate our apartment and our lease ends in may!!)
get my license (will be going in march/april for driving test)
get a van
get part time job
go to CNA school (this will depend on money situations)
work on our relationship

all these reasons make me feel like we should wait..#1 and 2 being the biggest reasons..we agreed to use the pull out method so if bean did happen to stick and got a bfp we would accept it with open arms..
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January 13th, 2010, 05:10 AM
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January 13th, 2010, 05:36 AM
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I'm sorry it's starting out to be such a rough year for you. I think it's natural for there to be a strain on a relationship after a loss...you're hurting and he doesn't know how to help, your hormones are going nuts and he can't keep up, etc. Give it some time, and move "work on relationship" to the top of the list. I hope things get better soon. (((hugs)))
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January 13th, 2010, 05:49 AM
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Last year started off as a bad year. All the way until May... then it became a good year. So, hang in there.
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January 13th, 2010, 06:22 AM
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((HUGS)) I truly hope that things get better.
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January 13th, 2010, 08:26 AM
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*hugs* Sandy. Just hang in there, you're both dealing with a huge loss, and it's affecting you both differently. He probably just doesn't know how to act around you right now.
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January 13th, 2010, 09:42 AM
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Aw! My heart just broke when I saw your post about the u/s. I know this year has had a rough start for you guys. Hang in there! Sounds like you have some awesome goals!
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