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My 4 year old and 3 year old had spent the weekend at her fathers house this past weekend, which he shares with his grandmother, mother, and 7 year old sister Savannah. My 4 year old had informed me on the way home from preschool that Savannah said Hannah Montana and Justin Bieber had Sex!
I would like to know where a 7 year old got that from and why my 4 year old is now repeating it. I am so mad. That word should not be in a 4 year olds vocabulary. I'm calling her father but I don't even know what to say. I don't want them going over there around her if she is going to be telling my preschoolers stuff like that.
What would you do in a situation like that?
I know I need to calm down a little before I talk to him, bc right now I think I might jump through the phone and strangle him.
Eeek, definitely not something you want your 4yo to say! But the 7yo could have picked it up anywhere really, and she wouldn't really be old enough to know better. She could have heard it at school or anywhere really, so I'd try to calm down before you talk to him, he might be just as shocked as you are.
Exactly, you really don't know where she picked it up at. Going to preschool she could have very easily picked it up there. Kids here things all the time and repeat it. I'd calm down then ask him if he's heard her say it before and discuss how you both need to watch what you're saying around the kids because they pick up everything.
"No one else will ever know the strength of my love for you. After all, you are the only one who knows what my heart sounds like from the inside." AA&NJ
School. My kids come home with all kinds of crap like that. One of them (the 9 year old I think) was going off about how Selena Gomez made Justin cut his hair and how she didn't like him for it. And then one of the girls was going on and on about Miley Cyrus being a bad girl now. I was like "Really?" This is why I make sure they hear EVERYTHING here first. Every swear word. Anything having to do with sex. We talk about it. Talk about drugs, bullying, bad words. I tell them what it means and that I expect them not to say it. I don't like them coming home with words they know nothing about.
Ok I've slept on it and have calmed down a lot. I'm going to talk to him today and hopefully he will talk to his mother, so his mother can sit down with his little sister. I'll let yall know how it goes.