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October 10th, 2012, 06:06 PM
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Every time I go to the bathroom, I hold my breath before I wipe. I'm so afraid I'm going to see red on the paper. Anyone else feel like this? I'm only 10 dpo so I haven't missed my period yet.
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October 10th, 2012, 06:10 PM
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I'm almost 7 weeks and kind of feel the same way. I had a m/c in Feb and in June.
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October 10th, 2012, 06:10 PM
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I didn't take a test until I was 4 days late, but I still have this feeling. This is my first pregnancy and I've had some mild cramping the whole time (since I was supposed to be PMSing), so every time I go to the bathroom, I hold my breath and have to look to make sure there's no red or pink. And with having to pee as much as I do, it's exhausting. I'm glad I'm not the only one, though!

Good luck and here's hoping for a sticky bean! (I'm finally picking up the website's lingo )
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October 10th, 2012, 06:41 PM
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I hold my breath and look every time I wipe.
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October 10th, 2012, 06:45 PM
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I'm six weeks tomorrow, and I look every. single. time. I go! I don't know how long it'll be before I get over it. I spotted a lot with my first, so I guess I'm just expecting it...
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October 10th, 2012, 08:39 PM
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I look every time I wipe as well. Hoping there is nothing.
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October 10th, 2012, 09:40 PM
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Same here! I'm trying to relax but deep down I'm terrified of MC...I think this is every mama to be's worst fear...and understandably too.
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October 11th, 2012, 02:12 AM
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I look but I had a "period" making sure nothings happening again
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October 11th, 2012, 02:58 AM
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I am totally doing it as well
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October 11th, 2012, 03:13 AM
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It's the same here. I've had mc before I'm a super nervous about it. Not sure if I should be planning for baby or disappointment. I'm counting the days until the first trimester is over & I can feel more confident.
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October 11th, 2012, 03:36 AM
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Yep
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October 11th, 2012, 10:13 AM
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Yea, it really sucks.
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October 11th, 2012, 12:35 PM
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Yeh its like you get SOOOOO excited and happy to get your BFP...but after that the worry sets in that the baby grows healthy and you get thru the first trimester ok!

Like one worry to the next!
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October 11th, 2012, 03:48 PM
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It is very common to be a constant TP CHECKER!
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October 12th, 2012, 02:27 PM
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I do it. It's hard not too after a MC. I kinda relaxed about it for awhile, but this morning I woke up early with aching in my tailbone area, which has renewed my paranoia.
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October 12th, 2012, 03:26 PM
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I honestly haven't this time. With my last pregnancy that ended in miscarriage I was a paranoid freak. I checked every single time and it happened. This time i'm so ambivalent that i'm pretty much pretending i'm not pregnant and I guess my brain is doing well at the denial game because I haven't even thought about the whole TP wipe! But I remember doing it last time and it was awful to have that anxiety all the time
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October 13th, 2012, 11:32 AM
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Same here. Yesterday I had some brown spotting but none today. The anxiety is horrible!
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