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I will be most likely having another c-section. I will be asking my dr about a vbac and trial of labor, but I know most around here are not supportive. Dh doesn't even want me to mention the vbac, he's afraid of me dying on the table or something. I am terrified of the c/s also. Thats part of the reason why it's taken so long for us to be ready for another baby this time. I had a horrible experience, was so drugged up I don't even remember seeing my baby for the first time. Hated that DD and DH were quickly wisked away while I lay stretched out on the table in a cold room, basically alone while they stitched me back up. and didn't get to hold DD until over an hour after that. I got horribly sick and couldn't breath and I paniked. I had several complications afterwards that arose as well because of the c/s and then not to mention the LONG recovery. I don't want to scare anyone that hasn't gone through it. I have friends that had a wonderful experience and said they preferred the c/s to going through labor. That just wasn't my experience. I had the epidural last time, and I'm praying that the spinal will be better and that this time will be easier. I'm going to be a nervous wreck when the time comes.
Mitza-why did they have you so drugged up? Was it an emergency c/s? I had a scheduled c/s with my daughter 8 years ago and i wasnt drugged up at all (except for the epidural) I had a great experience last time but for some reason THIS time I am SOOOO nervous about it all I am terrified of the spinal.