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Is excited about me having another one.... My last pregnancy (recently) was bad. All kinds of problems and I am high risk. I saw for the first time in nine months and all she said was so we are doing this again... Kinda hurt my feelings because I felt close with her with Carter and was actually excited to see her again. But didn't feel that in return.
Maybe just my hormones or something but it hurt my feelings.
I kind of know how you feel. I don't know if I'm imagining it or not, but I always feel discriminated against, too. I'm sure it's just my imagination. I feel like people are really surprised that I'll have three kiddos before I'm 25, not that I care much about what people think, but still.
Mommy to Isaac 8.1.07 Gabriel 7.2.09 and Samuel 6.15.13
Angel Babe 9-16-2012 5wks
OMG I cant believe she had that response! I am so sorry that she was upsupportive....hopefully next time she will be more supportive...I dont mean to be nosey but can I ask what kind of complications you had with the last pregnancy that might have made her respond that way?
I had preeclampsia and my blood pressure was in the 200's and had pregnancy carple tunnel and rhinitis then asthma... It was one thing after another when they decided to take Carter I was 35 weeks and we both when into distress.
That's too bad that she said that People, especially a female OB, should know how easy it is for a pregnant woman to take things personally. It sucks when you feel like you have a good rapport with someone until they do something that makes you think twice!