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Ladies this is tough.... I tend to be a ray of happy most of the time but honestly since this weekend and the news I have been a mess. I am kind of distancing myself from everyone and feeling super sad.... ick
I just have hope one minute the next minute I go back to spotting and I loose hope, I feel good a few hours later and get hopeful again.... I am never away from my children. I am a stay at home mom and we just dont have many people to watch them so date nights are rare. I have spent the most time away from in the last five days than I have since they were born. I feel guilty my older son is getting anxiety about who is going to pick him up from school and if he has to go to the babysitters again. :/ These days at the hospital have been 8+ hours long and even though my husband is getting paid days off he is falling behind at work..... sorry to complain it is just hard!
I can't imagine, Im sure it is super hard to be in such limbo and having these extreme and what I imagine would be kind of a rare situation. Im sorry your kids are feeling the affects of you having to be gone and mom guilt is the worst. But you need to take care of yourself and figure out what is going on with the baby because you might have a tough decision ahead of you. Im glad you came here to vent instead of keeping things bottled up. Im really hoping a miracle will happen and the baby will move and everything will be fine.
Your feelings are more than justified. It shows what an amazing woman you are to be thinking of others right now when you're in so much emotional pain. I am at magees right now waiting for my mom to get out of surgery. If we were friends in real life you could let loose on me. Sometimes that's what you need. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your bean!!!
Honestly thank you ladies. I got to have a more normal evening... took my son to karate, made dinner, gave my kids baths and we are settling in to watch Charlie Brown an the giant pumpkin Doing my normal mom stuff has made me feel little better. I know I can do this through lots of prayer...I have no other choice. I appreciate you all being so kind to me.